mma87 Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Hi just asking if I should feel guilty about dating younger girl 19 at work. She started 3 months ago but for the first month I never talked to her as she was incredibly good looking and and I wasn't looking for anything. First time I talked to her about she kind of fobbed me off so I laughed it off and never though more of it. Then a girlfriend at work told me this girl was always talking about how good looking I was and nervous she was when I worked the same shifts. So I tried to converse with her again and this time she was awesome. Anyway long story short we began flirting exchanging texts at night for hours until Saturday I told her how insanely hot she was and she said the exactly same thing about me. When we went for the train we held hands and began kissing. I am taking her for dinner this weekend but the age difference is bothering me. I'm 25 and feel like I am doing something wrong by getting involved with someone so much younger. She is constantly telling people at work how I kissed her which is very immature and I worry she is too young for any real relationship?
David87 Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Well I had a relationship like yours once, I was 23 and the girl was 18. We dated for 3 years she broke my heart when she found someone better. So be careful because girls that age don't know what they want. 1
Conners Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 I too had a relationship like this. I started a new job when I was 19, the guy at work I started dating was 27. He had doubts just as you do and I told him that age is nothing but a number blah blah blah.. truth is that I ended up dumping him. We were at different stages of our lives. I was still partying a lot and he wanted to settle down with marriage and kids very very soon. He was controlling and did not like me going out with my friends or drinking. Those were just a few factors but I would really advise you against dating this girl. The physical attraction is not enough, you can already see that she is emotionally immature because she is telling everyone. It's only going to get worse.
Conners Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Well I had a relationship like yours once, I was 23 and the girl was 18. We dated for 3 years she broke my heart when she found someone better. So be careful because girls that age don't know what they want. This is also true. I thought I had found my first love and real relationship. Only now I know that it was just lust and I wanted to experience/find something better. Broke it off with the guy before I turned 21.
Author mma87 Posted March 18, 2014 Author Posted March 18, 2014 I too had a relationship like this. I started a new job when I was 19, the guy at work I started dating was 27. He had doubts just as you do and I told him that age is nothing but a number blah blah blah.. truth is that I ended up dumping him. We were at different stages of our lives. I was still partying a lot and he wanted to settle down with marriage and kids very very soon. He was controlling and did not like me going out with my friends or drinking. Those were just a few factors but I would really advise you against dating this girl. The physical attraction is not enough, you can already see that she is emotionally immature because she is telling everyone. It's only going to get worse. Im not really worried about getting dumped that much just I know I don't really want to enter into something that if something goes wrong she doesn't become too clingy.
Conners Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Im not really worried about getting dumped that much just I know I don't really want to enter into something that if something goes wrong she doesn't become too clingy. haha you may think that you aren't worried about being dumped.. my ex didn't really worry about that either and thought it would be more of a fling. He turned into the clingy one and I unfortunately broke his heart when I ended things.
stillafool Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 I am taking her for dinner this weekend but the age difference is bothering me. I'm 25 and feel like I am doing something wrong by getting involved with someone so much younger. She is constantly telling people at work how I kissed her which is very immature and I worry she is too young for any real relationship? Then, why are you dating a 19 year old?
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