stevie123 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 I've just spent all weekend without speaking to her or hearing a single word. I'm going insane. I truly hope that she's thinking about things and missing me and considering seeing a councellor with me. She's run away from every relationship once it's gotten serious in the past. She obviously has comittment issues but she told me she would overcome them with me because I made her so happy - I guess not. I haven't said a word to her since Wednesday. Every hour feels like days.
sidney2718 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 I've just spent all weekend without speaking to her or hearing a single word. I'm going insane. I truly hope that she's thinking about things and missing me and considering seeing a councellor with me. She's run away from every relationship once it's gotten serious in the past. She obviously has comittment issues but she told me she would overcome them with me because I made her so happy - I guess not. I haven't said a word to her since Wednesday. Every hour feels like days. I just want to warn you that NC is designed to help you SEPARATE from the other person. The pain of it MAY bring them back, but it is not guaranteed. I see nothing wrong with approaching her in the right way. You could tell her that now that the two of you have learned how to fight, perhaps now the two of you could learn how to compromise. Of course you have to decide what to say, I don't know either of you and can't really write a script for you. I will say that you must not badger her. You must not act as if she's a piece of s**t and you are a saint for even talking to her. She's a human being, just like you! And you don't have to call her multiple times each day, or even once a day. Somebody in your relationship has to act like an adult!
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