saltyfishhead666 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Out of everything important I said to he just texts me focusing on the fake profile issue saying I'm not on any of your ****. Seriously ew. See my point... Tell him to f*ck himself, your off To have a better life without him. Out of curiousness what phone do you have? If it's fairly new should be able to tell you how to block him
Author Lacey. Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 See my point... Tell him to f*ck himself, your off To have a better life without him. Out of curiousness what phone do you have? If it's fairly new should be able to tell you how to block him And those are the words I told him!!!! I'm always saying sorry ...and I'm not sorry this time. Its an old android, when I download an app it over heats my phone.
saltyfishhead666 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 And those are the words I told him!!!! I'm always saying sorry ...and I'm not sorry this time. Its an old android, when I download an app it over heats my phone. Which model? Most older androids have block Options (they came before the iphone) You shouldn't be sorry, you've got nothing to be sorry for.
Author Lacey. Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Which model? Most older androids have block Options (they came before the iphone) You shouldn't be sorry, you've got nothing to be sorry for. I believe its a Samsung galaxy star the really old ones with the slide keyboard hehe...' need to get up with the times lol
saltyfishhead666 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 I believe its a Samsung galaxy star the really old ones with the slide keyboard hehe...' need to get up with the times lol Definitely haha!!! Maybe a change of number too... Lol
saltyfishhead666 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Definitely haha!!! Maybe a change of number too... Lol Can you block numbers on the Samsung Galaxy S? - Yahoo UK & Ireland Answers Here you go
Author Lacey. Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Definitely haha!!! Maybe a change of number too... Lol Omg he messages saying "you messaged me lol I'm not playing your game. Bye'' I told him no games this is all real true I'm time you will see good riddens. Yes a definite. Number change
Author Lacey. Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 Can you block numbers on the Samsung Galaxy S? - Yahoo UK & Ireland Answers Here you go Awesome thanks a bunch!!
Author Lacey. Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 :mad:Wow so I thought I was done but apparently not... today's not going well hope this day is over soon . I just vented to my ex telling him that he was the problem, and how he plays these games to stroke his own ego. I said I didn't care what he thought about me but it as if I am trying to make him feel the way I do or realize that he was wrong... I don't know where this is going but all I want is for him to understand what he's done wrong.:(
sooshi Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Lacey, if he has done anything wrong, he will have to come to that realization himself. trying to make him wrong takes a lot of energy and isn't healthy for you, and doesn't accomplish anything positive. Breathe.
Author Lacey. Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 Lacey, if he has done anything wrong, he will have to come to that realization himself. trying to make him wrong takes a lot of energy and isn't healthy for you, and doesn't accomplish anything positive. Breathe. It is energy sucking and he says things like uh huh. Whatever you say. Its so hurtful I ask why disrespect me and play games why not just tell me you didn't want me...
sooshi Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 You know now that he doesn't want to be with you. And I know it hurts. But you know what? It's a GOOD thing that he doesn't want to be with you because you deserve to be with someone who truly respects you! I know it might be hard to feel that right now, and it may not mean much to say this when you're hurting, but trust me... in time, you'll be so glad that you're not with him anymore! 1
Author Lacey. Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 You know now that he doesn't want to be with you. And I know it hurts. But you know what? It's a GOOD thing that he doesn't want to be with you because you deserve to be with someone who truly respects you! I know it might be hard to feel that right now, and it may not mean much to say this when you're hurting, but trust me... in time, you'll be so glad that you're not with him anymore! I understand but why did he seem like he was faking..... it and why isn't he giving me an answer to why he did it? I don't understand he clearly likes the attention but I'm not getting a decent response
Simon Phoenix Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 I understand but why did he seem like he was faking..... it and why isn't he giving me an answer to why he did it? I don't understand he clearly likes the attention but I'm not getting a decent response That's why you have to stop asking the question. I mean, you are just hurting yourself for no reason at this point. Dumpers aren't going to give you the full truth for a variety of reasons, so stop asking. The answers don't matter anyway -- the result is what matters. Accept the result and move forward from it. 1
Author Lacey. Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 That's why you have to stop asking the question. I mean, you are just hurting yourself for no reason at this point. Dumpers aren't going to give you the full truth for a variety of reasons, so stop asking. The answers don't matter anyway -- the result is what matters. Accept the result and move forward from it. Its hard because its repetitive its like a roller coaster I cannot get off.... best option is a number change.
Simon Phoenix Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Its hard because its repetitive its like a roller coaster I cannot get off.... best option is a number change. You can get off the rollercoaster -- you just don't want to. And honestly, there's no advice on here that will be useful to you until you decide that you want to be active in your recovery. 2
Author Lacey. Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 You can get off the rollercoaster -- you just don't want to. And honestly, there's no advice on here that will be useful to you until you decide that you want to be active in your recovery. I do.. just afraid to let go. I don't know where to start
Author Lacey. Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 silence is best! success is revenge... Yes agreed . Thanks everyone xox
Simon Phoenix Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 I do.. just afraid to let go. I don't know where to start By not talking to him. And he let go of you -- you are holding on to something that doesn't exist. But yeah, the first step is pretty basic.
saltyfishhead666 Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Sorry I was asleep when you posted this!! Don't rant just block. He has no hold over you now, you don't have to play his games anymore. Just block him out so he can't play them. The more you rant at him the worse you will feel. He doesn't care about you, or it he's done something wrong he will never admit it and you will never get an explanation as to why he did. You ranting at him is having the desired effect. Stop doing it and rant to us instead. He's literally not worth it xx
Author Lacey. Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 He says tho ex things to me. Your talking your BS to stay in contact me with me. And I told him what I'm taking to you about what's gone on between us. One minute everythings fine next your rude and disrespectful and play games! Everything g to this man is a game. Every move is calculated he doesn't care , he's a good actor. He has no empathy. I told him he is damaged emotionally that's why he is Inca able of love. He knows how to play like he cares and play the role but not feel it. His responses are whatever you say I'm with with it I don't know why I respond anymore.
KaliLove Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Then don't respond anymore. One of you has to break the cycle. Be the stronger person. Just stop talking to him. 2
saltyfishhead666 Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 That number change can't come fast enough for you honey!
BC1980 Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 He says tho ex things to me. Your talking your BS to stay in contact me with me. And I told him what I'm taking to you about what's gone on between us. One minute everythings fine next your rude and disrespectful and play games! Everything g to this man is a game. Every move is calculated he doesn't care , he's a good actor. He has no empathy. I told him he is damaged emotionally that's why he is Inca able of love. He knows how to play like he cares and play the role but not feel it. His responses are whatever you say I'm with with it I don't know why I respond anymore. Why are you still engaging with this person? How is it helping you to tell him how f*cked up he is?
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