Andrew77777 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Hi for the last month, there is a waitress at the local Pizzeria that seems to have interest in me She only works only on friday night from 8pm - 2am At first I thought she was just being nice with me, but for the past 3 weeks when I go eat there on Friday night she always come to my table to talk with me, she is working at the same time, so she often has to leave to serve clients and she always comes back to continue our discussions, she can be back like 7 or 8 times during the 2 hours I am there She told me almost everything about her life,her split with her ex-boyfriend, about her children, that she has a second job ,her salary, that she has to sell the house because she cannot afford it alone, etc She also admitted to me that she is saying some guys, but that this is not serious and that she is not attached to any Last week when I arrived at the restaurant , I sit a a table and she came right at me . She asked me if I was still working out (I had explain her a week before that I was back to the gym to shred a couple of pounds and get my shape back after an accident), so I said yes I`m still training, and then she replied:'' It really begins to show'' , again that night we talked until 2:00 Last night when I went, she was again very with me all night, her body language was positive , sometimes she was playing with her hair while talking, and she touched my arm or hand a couple of times during the night. During our conversation she told me that she had searched me on Facebook since the last time we saw , but she could not find me because I don`t use my full name, after then I admitted her that I had found her Facebook profile, then she asked me to send her a request so we can be on each other's friend list Over our conversations I realized that we were almost at the same point, we both became singles around 6 months ago, after very long relationships (9 years for her and 12 years for me), so we are not ready again to commit in a serious relationship. I have some friends with benefit,but nothing serious.Exactly like her What I would like is to go out with her and maybe become friend with benefit and if it becomes serious then we could become exclusive for each others I still have not sent her the friend request on Facebook, since she asked me less that 24 h ago I do not want to appear too desperate since I read somewhere that being confident is a big part of the success What do you think about all this? How long should I wait to send the FB request? Next time I see her I will probable make a move and ask for her number but I would really like to have your advices, I have been out of the dating scene for 12 years and Iam a little bit rusted Thanx a lot boys and girls
d0nnivain Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 It's a FB friend request, not a marriage proposal. Send it as soon as you finish reading this. 1
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