xmarksthespot Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 (edited) Hi all, I'm 22 years old, am thin, have dark brown hair and wouldn't say I was ugly. I go to this meat market once a month to get steaks and I go with my boyfriend. When I was there a few months ago this guy who works there was looking at me (making eye contact) through the window in the door in the back. I think he is a butcher, he doesn't work up front where there are only women working. He will occasionally go up front to put more meat out. He came out from the back and was looking me up and down with his eyes and was smiling. He will always look at me and smile or nod his head. My boyfriend put our 7 month old son who was in his car seat behind the stand where the employees work so they could see our son who they think is cute and he came out and said hi to our baby. He bent down and said hi, he didn't have to which makes me even more sure he has a thing for me. He always comes out front when I'm there, he really has no need to be out front and I get this vibe he likes me. Then we asked the lady who works there what type of meat would be best for beef and noodles, he came out and she brought him into the conversation. Then I thought he might be checking me out from behind cause he went clear out to the area where the customers stand and looked down towards my butt. There was no reason for him to go that far. I'm having troubles with my boyfriend and am thinking about finding someone else and just having shared parenting with him. How can I convey to him that I'm interested? Edited March 16, 2014 by xmarksthespot More to say
Bantosm Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Best end with your current bf, before trying to get the meat man's attention. No, need for big trouble.
Author xmarksthespot Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 I broke it off with him today and we agreed it was for the best. How should I get his attention?
Michael91 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 How can I convey to him that I'm interested? Likely he is interested but doesn't want to get rejected or appear to do anything out of line. Basically it is the girls responsibility to make the first move. That doesn't mean ask him out but to get his attention. You might go there often and see if you can make eye contact or ask a question, smile and linger to give him the opportunity to carry on the conversation. It he is interested, he should take the bait unless he is one of the few guys are so fearful of rejection and so lacking in confidence there is little you can do. Regardless, at your age, if you are attractive you will not have any problem getting attention from guys just as desirable.
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