ldnstar Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 So heres my first post, its a bit of a long story (yes its a girl at work one)..... This has been going on for ages, off and on for just over a year. I got quite friendly with a girl who started in a different department. We started by just by just taking on fb, swapped numbers and started chatting more and more, in and out of work. I'll say now she has a boyfriend, this is where you all stop reading and tell me to stop now right? lol Anyway because of this i never ever saw it as anything more than friends, even tho from then until now she tells the world that shes unhappy and wants to leave him. We went out a few times after work, nothing like dates or anything, just friends, but over time we started getting closer and closer. She tried to kiss me but i pulled away as i didn't want to go there knowing she has a BF. We never really spoke about it and just carried on as normal. This goes on for a bit until one time we go out for some food and drinks, it felt like a proper date, nothing happened, we had a cuddle but thats it, after it felt a bit weird as i could tell she felt bad and we stopped talking for a bit, i decided to completely back off. Forward to a work night out, we're both there and end up getting quite drunk, she trys to kiss me again, this time i kiss her back, i shouldn't have i know but i did. After we we're fine with it and put it down to too much drink. From there its been a bit up and down, ive tried to stay away as much as i can. We argue like a married couple, its proper love hate, i think its because theres so much tension there. Well its since happened again, this time we wasnt totally smashed, we knew exctally what we were doing and it wasnt just a drunken mess, shes always taking "if we got together" ect, the whole company say how good we look together, how we should hook up ect. Shes a bit of a flirt and probably does like the attention but there is something there, its clear for everyone to see. My problem is this, she has a bf so surly if she wanted out that much she would have by now? Maybe she thinks i woudnt be interested to is playing it safe? I honestly dont know if i would be interested, im quite confused. We get on like a house on fire, we can both completely be ourselves around each other, i dont think theres anyone else i feel as comfortable around. She drive me nuts sometimes but i do like her. We've been messing around for ages and i kind of want to just say to her, basically if you leave your bf and you want me then we can do it. I dunno if its a good move or a terrible one. Thoughts?....
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