emotionsmessmeup Posted January 26, 2005 Share Posted January 26, 2005 OK Please someone talk to me.... so my 5 yr old bf (long distance)... he was back from india...and started talking again..not much just 5 mins a day or whatever.. and i thought maybe he wants to get back or something... and this morning we argued like crap..... and he said he doesnt see a future with me and thats why he is breaking off... i used to behave obesessively over him...would call him continously etc. etc. coz he wudnt give me attention and he says seeing that made him run away.. he sai dwhich guy likes a girl who runs after him like that... i dont do that anymore...btu he says its over..and we should let it go... I just feel so hurt.... i know its over...i did let it go btu somewhere deep inside i thought he might come one day and ask me back.. he would tell me..you are the one i love and i want to spend the rest of my life with u.. i am so hurt.... but he wants to finish it...i told him bye and that after this i wont contact him and he shouldnt either... he said "ok bye"..thats about it... i dont know wht to do now..i feel sad, betrayed, hurt.. he says the problem is you still want to be with me..but i dont want to be with you.. i lost 60 lbs for this man... he said see and i am still not satisfied..so let it go... he just wants to end it and never get back with me ever Link to post Share on other sites
ImKris Posted January 26, 2005 Share Posted January 26, 2005 E: I gave my daughter a book recently called, "He's just not that into you." The intent was to help her understand that she's valuable and worthy of the best treatment from a guy. She's beautiful, intelligent, humorous, hardworking, a good friend, etc. All these qualities and more are what makes her valuable. I wanted to help her understand that so she doesn't get caught up in feeling that she isn't worthy because a MAN said so by breaking up with her. The point I want to make to you is that why do you honsestly believe you would want someone who would treat you so badly and discard you like trash? YOU ARE A VALUABLE WOMAN in this world. Don't give him one more ounce of your precious time. Set yourself free of him and keep yourself free for the guy that is out there looking for you. In the meantime, treat yourself to the book, draw a hot bubble bath, pour a glass of champagne and call a friend and go out. Do good things for yourself and don't give that foul bast**d another thought! He did you a favor! Make sure you tell him so too! Now go celebrate! Link to post Share on other sites
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted January 26, 2005 Author Share Posted January 26, 2005 do u really get a man who treats you right? Have you met the perfect man? Link to post Share on other sites
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