ShreyaD Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 So me and a guy are dating and he said that I'm the only one. However, when my friend tries chatting him up on facebook he replied and at the same time he ignored my message. I'm genuinely upset! I'm crying as I'm writing this message. Why does this always happen to me? Is there something wrong with me?I never been unfaithful to anyone but everyone has always cheated or lied to me. I think I'm done with relationships in general
AntiSocal Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 So me and a guy are dating and he said that I'm the only one. However, when my friend tries chatting him up on facebook he replied and at the same time he ignored my message. I'm genuinely upset! I'm crying as I'm writing this message. Why does this always happen to me? Is there something wrong with me?I never been unfaithful to anyone but everyone has always cheated or lied to me. I think I'm done with relationships in general Oh. My. Gawd. Lol. How old are you young lady? Young? You sound pretty young. Well one thing you'll learn about guys (i'm a guy) is that the MAJORITY of us tend to think with our genitals first, worry about consequences later. So just because a guy is talking to another girl (probably because he thought there was some sex in it for him) doesn't necessarily mean that he likes the other girl more or doesn't like you. Just means he wanted to have sex with her. That being said? I doubt hes faithful. Most men aren't gonna be faithful if a women approaches them. But that doesn't mean that you aren't good enough. Its just the way men are. If you are as young as you sound you need to stop expecting for men to fall madly in love with you and only you. It doesn't work like that. At your age you need to just play the field. GEt some experience. Date multiple guys. And after a while you'll find a dude who really likes you. And if he really likes you enough he'll have no problem staying faithful cuz he'll want the same in return. Also stop trying to test your boyfriends. If you always go around looking for faults you are gonna find them. Learn to trust until they lose your trust.
Author ShreyaD Posted March 14, 2014 Author Posted March 14, 2014 she didn't know we were dating because we kept it quiet and then she told me she was talking to a really cute guy and walaaah. No I'm in my 20s
David87 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 she didn't know we were dating because we kept it quiet and then she told me she was talking to a really cute guy and walaaah. No I'm in my 20s Well your pretty young. He is doing this because you aren't exclusive partners yet. He analyzes every possibility he has. 1
Author ShreyaD Posted March 14, 2014 Author Posted March 14, 2014 I deleted my facebook and he saw it but didn't bother acknowledging me why and continued talking to her. I have been cheated on before and its not going to happen again. I'm going to cut all communication with him now. I'm really upset but I guess thats what he is like.
Gaeta Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 she didn't know we were dating because we kept it quiet and then she told me she was talking to a really cute guy and walaaah. No I'm in my 20s Oppsss here's your red flag. You kept it quiet? Let me guess that's what HE wanted?
Gaeta Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 I deleted my facebook and he saw it but didn't bother acknowledging me why and continued talking to her. I have been cheated on before and its not going to happen again. I'm going to cut all communication with him now. I'm really upset but I guess thats what he is like. aaawww honey you deleted your facebook? is he really worth all that drama? How long you've been dating? were you exclusive?
David87 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 aaawww honey you deleted your facebook? is he really worth all that drama? How long you've been dating? were you exclusive? They weren't exclusive, and they just started dating. I agree to much drama with the FB thing, why don't you just block him?
Author ShreyaD Posted March 14, 2014 Author Posted March 14, 2014 I will when I eventually re activate it but right now I think I just need to be on my own. We were dating for about two months
Larry56 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 I guy who is really into you is not going to risk that by chatting up someone else up. Sorry but, this guy is no good for you. I've very sorry, there are lot's of bad guys out there. They are generally the more confident ones who will ask you out/more than the shy *good* guys. 2
Author ShreyaD Posted March 14, 2014 Author Posted March 14, 2014 Its not even the fact that lied. Its just that I always get cheated on. I was in a 4.5 year relationship before and he cheated on me too and then I was finally over it and decided to give it a go again and I get lied to AGAIN. !
saltyfishhead666 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 Its not even the fact that lied. Its just that I always get cheated on. I was in a 4.5 year relationship before and he cheated on me too and then I was finally over it and decided to give it a go again and I get lied to AGAIN. ! Men lie, woman lie. I've found going back into the dating scene that people lie a whole lot these days. They don't need to lie about their intentions but do anyway. Go and find someone who won't lie to you and chat your friends up. You likely won't forget this and be able to move on - with him anyway
Larry56 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 Its not even the fact that lied. Its just that I always get cheated on. I was in a 4.5 year relationship before and he cheated on me too and then I was finally over it and decided to give it a go again and I get lied to AGAIN. ! I understand how you feel. It's like you can't trust anyone anymore. 1
regine_phalange Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 I would let him go. It s your right to have strict filters if you feel like it. 1
Gaeta Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 OP this a good opportunity to self analyze and identify why you let these men into your life. I have a problem with you had been dating for 2 months but had to keep it a secret.
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