warrenorabbits Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 It feels good when you're in it, but watch out for when you're suddenly out of luck. We dated, we fought, we broke up, we became enemies, we made up. Now she wants to "be friends." I want her back, and I've told her already. She says she didn't feel "that spark" when we kissed. Plus, admittedly, I was a little too sensitive when we were dating around other guys. I feel like I ruined my chances with her. Every day I stab myself in the heart when I have to see her. I want her so badly.
AntiSocal Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 It feels good when you're in it, but watch out for when you're suddenly out of luck. We dated, we fought, we broke up, we became enemies, we made up. Now she wants to "be friends." I want her back, and I've told her already. She says she didn't feel "that spark" when we kissed. Plus, admittedly, I was a little too sensitive when we were dating around other guys. I feel like I ruined my chances with her. Every day I stab myself in the heart when I have to see her. I want her so badly. I'm laughing at you man. How old are you? Time to grow up. Love doesn't exist. Its an agreement between two people to put your partners needs ahead of your own. Not a physical thing. Since your ex doesn't want to put your needs above her own? Its impossible for you to still be in love with her. How long did you date? How long have you been broken up? If you really want to get over her you need to go no contact. and it sounds like you are infatuated more then you are "in love". Infatuation will drive you crazy if you let it. Been there done that. Fill up your free time and focus on other women. And really bro? Learn to stop romanticizing your relationships and see them for what they are. You need to be able to look at the good, the bad, and the ugly if you want to grow as a person and eventually become the best version of yourself. By romanticizing the relationship all you are doing is stunting your growth as a person. You can't improve if you don't admit what you did wrong. You can't learn to see the signs if you can't admit to yourself what she did wrong. Its learning process. Goodluck
David87 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 It feels good when you're in it, but watch out for when you're suddenly out of luck. We dated, we fought, we broke up, we became enemies, we made up. Now she wants to "be friends." I want her back, and I've told her already. She says she didn't feel "that spark" when we kissed. Plus, admittedly, I was a little too sensitive when we were dating around other guys. I feel like I ruined my chances with her. Every day I stab myself in the heart when I have to see her. I want her so badly. Stop being friends with her if you want to have a smal chance of getting back together. Being in the friendzone sucks especialy when you love the girl. Give her the opportunity to miss you and you might have a chance.
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