cereal_dater Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 (edited) Sorry dude... but glad you've moved on. This is a good lesson for the guys: when your girlfriend suddenly pulls back, you can bet dollars to doughnuts there's almost always another guy in the picture, or will be soon. It’s like they all have the exact same brain. There is no variation whatsoever. Ditto once they start feeding you the "I need time to think" crap. No guy in the history of the world has ever gotten back with an ex once this starts. It's just to keep you around until they've secured the next guy, then you're quickly disposed of like unwanted garbage. All the false hopes are just a facade to keep you pining for them; if they really wanted to be with you, they would. Simple as that. Edited August 11, 2014 by cereal_dater
Author Rem81 Posted December 3, 2014 Author Posted December 3, 2014 Hindsight is always 20/20 so they say. In retrospect the few of you that shared opinions of infidelity, which I readily discarded, were spot on. As mentioned I found out later about her cheating with a friend of mine when they were drunk, which tipped the arguments we were having into an ending. My pride was hurt and still is as he is a drug addict who was living with his parents. I say "living" past tense due to the fact that I have discovered they are now living together. Water sinks to it's lowest place, they are both pieces of **** and belong together...I care not what they do or who they do it with at this point (after a long time of considering various forms of revenge). Now what I have been dealing with is basically some form of PTSD. As you're all aware I was very much in love with my ex-fiance and the news that she wanted to end it and speed at which she did was very rapid. More or less sent me into shock. That coupled with the passing of someone very close to me shortly before the breakup and other changes in my life (career change, move, new relationship) have me panicky and going full blown fight or flight once or twice a week. This has resulted in one physical altercation with a friend as well as multiple episodes of me losing my temper or generally treating people I care about like ****. One time I physically forced my way out of a booth of friends at a restaurant on a split second so I could get the **** away from everyone. We're talking full blown kicking and crawling. I've also had weight loss and visible signs of aging (new wrinkles and grays)...which are fine because I'm even more attractive to other women now. I guess at this point I'm not really looking for advice on treatment as I figure like most trauma I've experience in my life this will pass too. I think I'm really just sharing this in hopes that if someone reads this who is a dishonest piece of **** or considering entering that mindset of dishonest ****tiness, they'll take to heart that their actions to affect other people...and do the right things to avoid making the world a worse place.
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