seany85 Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 No "both" answers. If you had to choose between a person that is a good lover and can give you amazing sex but lacks in the personality department or a person with a great personality and sense of humor but sucks in bed, which would you choose?
pickflicker Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 No "both" answers. If you had to choose between a person that is a good lover and can give you amazing sex but lacks in the personality department or a person with a great personality and sense of humor but sucks in bed, which would you choose? Personality.
Weezy1973 Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Sex. My friends make me laugh, but my partner is the only person that I have sex with. 2
Phantom888 Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 VERY tough question. For some reason I get turned on by women with great sense of humor, and often want to have sex with them if they make me laugh. But if I had to pick one, I'll pick the SEX because I can always find a woman on the side to make me laugh and not have sex with me, hence no risk of cheating.
pickflicker Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Sex. My friends make me laugh, but my partner is the only person that I have sex with. Good point. Revising my answer - sex. If forced to choose. I'd probably dump them and look for both...
regine_phalange Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Amazing humour -> Compatible communication -> Better sex with time. A great sense of humour can drag me from the pants. Has happened before. Make me laugh with my heart and I'm yours. 4
Chocolat Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Good sense of humor. If we can communicate -- and humor is the best, nuanced communication, imo -- then we can fix the sex. On the other hand, if the sex is good but the personality is blah, the other 23 hours of the day are going to be awful. 7
Gaeta Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 No "both" answers. If you had to choose between a person that is a good lover and can give you amazing sex but lacks in the personality department or a person with a great personality and sense of humor but sucks in bed, which would you choose? Sex: Because sex and the intimacy it brings is what holds everything together in a relationship.
Mr.Mango Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Good sense of humor. If we can communicate -- and humor is the best, nuanced communication, imo -- then we can fix the sex. On the other hand, if the sex is good but the personality is blah, the other 23 hours of the day are going to be awful. Seriously the best answer. 2
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Seriously the best answer. but it's a cheating answer! I don't think the rules allow for the other to "better" at the lacking attribute. I mean, you could also say "Sex! And I will enroll my SO in comedy classes!"
Mr.Mango Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 but it's a cheating answer! I don't think the rules allow for the other to "better" at the lacking attribute. I mean, you could also say "Sex! And I will enroll my SO in comedy classes!" Not really. Point blank I would take good sense of humor over amazing sex any day. And I'm still assuming we're talking about relationships here, which you know... develop.
acrosstheuniverse Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Humour. As others have said, amazing sex is amazing but you're going to be hanging out not having sex for many more hours than you're having sex. And sure I can get laughs from my friends but I want a partner I can laugh a lot with too. No contest. 2
Chocolat Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 but it's a cheating answer! I don't think the rules allow for the other to "better" at the lacking attribute. I mean, you could also say "Sex! And I will enroll my SO in comedy classes!" I don't think it's a cheat. Sex can be learned. Personality is pretty much immutable. Besides, anyone with a good sense of humor would be good at sex! <--- Now that's a cheat!
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 I don't think it's a cheat. Sex can be learned. Personality is pretty much immutable. Besides, anyone with a good sense of humor would be good at sex! <--- Now that's a cheat! I think OP means a scenario where u live out the remainder of the relationship with one and sans the other. Though *bad joke warning* I guess you could pick "personality" and then forcibly have sex the way you want against your partner's will! Healthy, right? jk jk
WrinkledForehead Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 I'm a rebel. Both. I've always refused to settle. 2
Author seany85 Posted March 14, 2014 Author Posted March 14, 2014 I think OP means a scenario where u live out the remainder of the relationship with one and sans the other. Though *bad joke warning* I guess you could pick "personality" and then forcibly have sex the way you want against your partner's will! Healthy, right? jk jk Exactly. The point of the hypothetical is which one you could live without.
babycakees Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 Sense of humor. You can always perfect the sex.
mindykaling Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 If I'm attracted to someone's personality which can make them hot as hell then there will be great sex. Just saying. 1
Haydn Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 Good line in Rock God t-shirts......often helps the sex. 1
Emilia Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 You can't have amazing sex with someone that doesn't have a personality. 3
pickflicker Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 You can't have amazing sex with someone that doesn't have a personality. I know, that's why I'm conflicted. On the one hand, good sex can be taught. On the other hand, a sexless relationship is not good enough - I need both. GAH!!
pickflicker Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 Good line in Rock God t-shirts......often helps the sex. I thought Morrissey was an Indie God?
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