I love my cousin but she doesnt want to talk to me

[fawazshakil]

I love my cousin alot from my childhood.She is 7 months older than me.We were so familiar with each other . we talk daily and always open to each other .But last month something happen between us and our life changes .I told her that i love her she suddenly starts ignoring me .She was the one who text me daily but now she doesnt . Today i told her that if she doesnt want to talk to me then i will not message her again and she doesnt reply to this message .I really love her alot and i really want her in my life .What i do now i am really missing her now alot .

[David87]

I love my cousin alot from my childhood.She is 7 months older than me.We were so familiar with each other . we talk daily and always open to each other .But last month something happen between us and our life changes .I told her that i love her she suddenly starts ignoring me .She was the one who text me daily but now she doesnt . Today i told her that if she doesnt want to talk to me then i will not message her again and she doesnt reply to this message .I really love her alot and i really want her in my life .What i do now i am really missing her now alot .

 

OOO the cousin love, have you seen ''That 70's Show'' ? you sound just like Fez.

 

This kind of stuff .... I don't even know where to start with you. It's wrong to love your relatives in this way ....

[fawazshakil]

but i really love her since my childhood icant live without her

[David87]

She has every right to ignore you. She texted you daily but you took it the wrong way. Please find a girl to love that isn't related to you ........

[fawazshakil]

We were so close that everyone in family talks about our marriage in joke

[David87]

Don't love her like a girlfriend, love her like a cousin that she is. Do you want to make children with her??? Do you want to marry her?

[fawazshakil]

Yes i want to spent my whole life with her

[somecamel]

Is it culturally acceptable for you to marry your cousin?

 

You do know of some of the pitfalls of inter breeding I hope?

 

I think you've got the wrong idea with this girl, she wanted you to be her cousin and friend, not lovers.

[fawazshakil]

Yes i am a muslim and in my religion there is no restriction in cousin marriages

[fawazshakil]

We have many couson mariages in our family and country and there is no restriction on it

[David87]

We have many couson mariages in our family and country and there is no restriction on it

 

Even if it isn't a problem in your country, he girl got scared by the idea. So just drop it.

[fawazshakil]

I will wait for her

[David87]

How old are you? Did you ever had a girlfriend?

[fawazshakil]

I am 22 years old and i love her since my childhood

[David87]

Ok so you're a virgin to.. Look I think this is wrong in every possible way, even dough it's ok in your country. I suggest that you tell your parents about this and see what they have to say.

[fawazshakil]

I will discuss it and my mother knows it i think

[David87]

Just go and tell her now, see how she reacts. Maybe she can help you.

[fawazshakil]

I will try to talk to her

[mano]

Since you have told her how u feel and now she is avoiding u, plz stop chasing her n give her the space to miss u n come back to you. I belong to the same society and here cousin marriages are quite common. In muslim families, people prefer to give their daughters to someone within the family. And at timee marriages outside the family are even considered inappropriate.

Do not chase her for now plz. U will only push her away.

[fawazshakil]

so i have to avoid her ??

[fawazshakil]

Thanks I will wait for her

[David87]

NO don't wait for her. Find another girl that isn't related to you.

[fawazshakil]

she is related to me you doesnt know the bond between us.

[David87]

You seem to have all the answers so do as you please, you got my honest advice. Do what you think is best for you.

[fawazshakil]

I love her sincerely and i am doing this since my childhood