bobsmith76 Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 This girl on match.com responded to my email and she lives in my city and she's read a book about the holographic universe!!! I've got a really good feeling about this one!!! I really believe that i have finally found the one and that this long quest for family happiness is finally over!!! We haven't spoken yet but something tells me that destiny is at hand!!!
Assasda Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Oh my God, and you havent met her yet. If you have this attitude, I can guarantee that it wont work out. Putting her on the Pedestal and not knowing a thing about her 3
Ruby Slippers Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 I read that book, too. I love pop physics books. But good luck
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Oh dear I cant help but think u are setting yourself up for a fall here... u need to take this one day at a time xx 3
Art_Critic Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 One thing with online dating is that you have to meet the person in real life before things can start fitting into place. When I was single and doing online dating there were times I felt something before I met them, I put wayyyy toooo much time in phone calls and emails before I met them only to find out that once I met them there was no click.. no connection and when the date was over so was all the energy. One girl that I got along great thru email and the phone once we met and the date was over I kissed her and it was like yuck.. kissing my brother... holy cow the connection was bad.. Don't put all your relationship eggs in one basket, meet her and go from there and don't get let down if it goes south, dating is all about the numbers and sooner or later you will find someone. 3
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 One thing with online dating is that you have to meet the person in real life before things can start fitting into place. When I was single and doing online dating there were times I felt something before I met them, I put wayyyy toooo much time in phone calls and emails before I met them only to find out that once I met them there was no click.. no connection and when the date was over so was all the energy. One girl that I got along great thru email and the phone once we met and the date was over I kissed her and it was like yuck.. kissing my brother... holy cow the connection was bad.. Don't put all your relationship eggs in one basket, meet her and go from there and don't get let down if it goes south, dating is all about the numbers and sooner or later you will find someone. Did you know your wife was different before you met in person? I also do OLD and there is often a huge disconnect between online and reality.
Gaeta Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Please get a hold of yourself. If you say anything like this to her she will run the other direction. I remember going on ONE date with this man and the following day he had written in his profile in caps he had met *the one*. I blocked him!! As for being head over heels for a woman you have not even met I guess you won't listen to any of us and you'll have to learn that lesson the hard way. 1
Art_Critic Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Did you know your wife was different before you met in person? I also do OLD and there is often a huge disconnect between online and reality. No I didn't, it was after we met that I got to see who she was, when we were emailing I had a different picture of who she was.. . I did have a connection before I met her though, there was an excitement that didn't disappear when we met.. a little like the OP's I guess.. I didn't think she was the one but was excited about her 2
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Don't worry bob, if this one falls through you've got two other potential suitors right here. 10
pickflicker Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 This girl on match.com responded to my email and she lives in my city and she's read a book about the holographic universe!!! I've got a really good feeling about this one!!! I really believe that i have finally found the one and that this long quest for family happiness is finally over!!! We haven't spoken yet but something tells me that destiny is at hand!!! Oh my God, you're overinvesting and you haven't even spoken her yet. Dude, relax or the thud if this goes bad will leave an imprint halfway to China. 2
David87 Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 This is disturbing on so many levels.. You haven't met the girl, hell you haven't spoken to the girl and she's the one.... come on dude shes already on a pedestal. With this attitude she'll run like the wolves are chasing her.
ascendotum Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Excellent, I found the DailyMail Online did a story on the holographic universe. I can now mention it on my profile if I ever go back on OLD. Bob, come on, you are leaping way ahead of yourself here. Get a date, then get excited. Good luck with holographic universe girl though.
d0nnivain Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Downshift. You can't go into your 1st meeting -- which isn't even really a date -- thinking you are getting to know your wife. You will freak her out.
MidwestUSA Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Don't worry bob, if this one falls through you've got two other potential suitors right here. Two and a half, I'm downloading the book as I type! 6
deathandtaxes Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Slow down there, OP! It's great you have at least something in common. That's always a good sign. But this has all the hallmarks of you creating these unrealistic images and expectations before you have even met the lady. It's good to be open to the feeling that she could be the one (I mean, isn't that why we date??), but just apply the brakes a little. And then come back and tell us how the date went. Happy dating!
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Two and a half, I'm downloading the book as I type! That is hilarious ! lol ! x F*ck it make that 3... where's the link to download ! lol x
Author bobsmith76 Posted March 10, 2014 Author Posted March 10, 2014 this is disturbing on so many levels.. You haven't met the girl, hell you haven't spoken to the girl and she's the one.... Come on dude shes already on a pedestal. With this attitude she'll run like the wolves are chasing her. this is so completely false!!! You don't understand!!! I have a strong sense of destiny!! I can feel it!! I have a very good nose for spotting a profile uniquely compatible for me!!
Jethro Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Haha OLD... c'mon dude, it's a 1 in 100 chance that she will even answer your email. I'm still going to send some positive vibes your way because I like you optimism!
MidwestUSA Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 this is so completely false!!! You don't understand!!! I have a strong sense of destiny!! I can feel it!! I have a very good nose for spotting a profile uniquely compatible for me!! Well, sounds great!! Is she approaching expiration? That may work in your favor!!! 2
Gaeta Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 (edited) this is so completely false!!! You don't understand!!! I have a strong sense of destiny!! I can feel it!! I have a very good nose for spotting a profile uniquely compatible for me!! Well, please update us after your first date. Edited March 10, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
travelbug1996 Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 A good nose for spotting a PROFILE?? Oh Lord Jesus take the wheel! Good Luck 3
babycakees Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 PLEASE PLEASE update this after your first date! When are you going out and what's on the agenda? I must hear details! haha
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