heggs Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 (edited) So after 3 year Its over, Sorta of a mutual break up. Over the last few days she has asked to meet me twice to talk about things, Both time she has said to me that its not best we meet up at all, telling me she wouldnt be able to trust me and that she would be to paranoid if we were dating ( she knows I have been talking to other girls) after the break up. So a day later im at soccer shes calls me 10 times, asking to meet up with me saying she needs me wants me back. I told her I cant as I was at soccer. The next morning she calls me before work to talk to me I said I cant talk im half asleep we can talk later.. I didnt hear back from her. A few days later she was txting me, saying that she loves me and misses me but we cant be together.. telling me that my drama makes her sick, She constantly drinking and getting drunk at home alone also which is a worry We did argue a fair bit to be honesty.. Do i tell her im going to see someone else?... Do i go NC? But im not sure what game shes playing!? Edited March 9, 2014 by heggs
guest572 Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 Just no contact will do. She seems pretty upset and emotional so I dont think you should tell her you are seeing someone. Just ignore her.
chir Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 I am abit like ur ex. . I broke up with him then can't accept it and want to get back almost immediately. This time he didn't want me back. I threaten to kill myself cut myself scream cry n begged. something I'm very ashamed abt now. This happen over a span of 2 days..then on the 3rd i told him I'm sorry i admit i just want him back at all cost but after thinking through. I really want a stable relationship i want to knoe he wants a future with me and not taking one dday at a time He replied eventually and told me he really cannot be with me and wish me all the best and not to do things i threatened to do i am smart pretty witty. I will have someone who is better and all I replied i noted his reply and also wish him the best. 5 days later. I send him a text just tellin him is not easy getting over him. Unlike what he thinks( he is hurt when i told him i only give 60 percent as to him he gave 100 percent) and asked him not to reply. I didn't contact him ever since and of coz he didn't too.. i just want to ask your views. I did scare him off right.like your ex? i feel so ashamed.
lvroflife Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 everyone is acting off emotions! Do the exact opposite of your emotions!! MATTER of fact if you were dumped: DO NOTHING, disappear, go away, leave them be, give them exactly what they want; YOU GONE. This will do two things, allow YOU TO HEAL which is most importan!! Second they will miss you, now miss you enough to want you back I do not know, but they will miss you and wonder what you are doing. BUT YOU ARE DISAPPEARING SO YOU CAN RECOUP AND HEAL!!
Author heggs Posted March 10, 2014 Author Posted March 10, 2014 I got a message from her I was at friends house driving home according to her she saw me driving, The txt said Are you F******* kidding me really? driving past me on the way to work? Whats up with that... I didnt reply how ever
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