GarrusVakarian Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 Last year, I found out my wife of two years was having an affair with a 50 year old married man. Marriage is over, think I dodged a bullet. But what surprises me, we had a hell of a lot of close mutual friends. Ever since, she has totally disregarded them all as if they don't exist. Some of the mutual friends she was especially close to!. She was so close she even called a married couple who we was friends with her other mum and dad!. But since then she has totally blanked them. Is that normal?. Its like she has erased them from her life!.
stillafool Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 She probably has. Were they your friends first? I can understand her not wanting to move in your circle anymore. Isn't that more comfortable for you? You wouldn't want to run into her and her dates at parties would you?
Author GarrusVakarian Posted March 9, 2014 Author Posted March 9, 2014 We both met them at the same time and made friends. Just suprising how she has totally erased them as she was quite close to a few of them. Yes I would kind of prefer she stay out of that circle of friends.
hestheone66 Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Based on what transpired it sounds to me like your ex could have NPD . Relationships are utilitarian and have no real emotions in them. They are all for show. However it could be case of extreme social shame on her part regarding the infidelity
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