polkadotty Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 I have been dating a boy for just over two months, the usual e.g. going out and he has stayed over at my house about five times (but we haven't slept together). I have told him from day one that I am not really looking for a relationship as I have just come out of a LTR, and was pretty reluctant about even going on a date, but he pursued it until I finally gave in. Everything was going well, he had introduced me to his friends and had plans to introduce me to his mother, and on more than one occasion spoke about future events together (e.g, what he would get me for my birthday in July, summer festivals we should go to). We had plans for him to come over on Tuesday night, and it was made pretty obvious that that was the night we would finally sleep together. However, when Tuesday came, I heard nothing all day and he never showed up. The next day he sent me a message saying he thought that I really wanted a relationship and that he didn't and he "didn't want to let me down". I have heard nothing since. I am confused as I was never the one chasing the relationship.. where has this came from? Is it just an excuse?
babycakees Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 It's an excuse. You told him you weren't looking for a relationship and my guess would be he is. So it's very possible he's looked to other options.
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