Girlfriend broke up with me through text and won't respond to texts or calls?

[bobsmith777]

I have already stated multiple times that I was not doing it for her, so I would appreciate if you people would stop saying that. Her best friend told me that her depression has gotten worse and that she has been spending all of her time alone, or with her mom back home. Her friend thinks that when she starts to feel better she might contact me and try to work things out. I'm not holding out for it, but I wouldn't be upset if it happened.

[bobsmith777]

I feel like I'm regressing a little today. I am on 13 days of NC and still haven't heard a single word from her in 18 days. It just feels like she is completely over me and likely won't attempt to contact me ever. I have gotten over the crying and sadness, but there is still some residual pain. Knowing that someone you talked about marriage with could cut you out of their life completely for 18 days after spending all of your time with, hurts quite a bit. I know she needs time to work on her own depression, but that doesn't make me feel any better. I wish there was something I could do to just get one chance to make things right. I know I would be able to do everything she wants to fix our relationship.

[bobsmith777]

Got an email from the ex today after about 3 weeks NC. I'm not going to go into huge details, but she actually wanted to try working things out. I am in complete shock because I never thought this would happen. I have no idea what to do, but I will keep updating this forum as I make some decisions. I am leaning towards no after all that I have been through, but we shall see.

[bluegreen]

Lord help us she is going to be a doctor is there a banging head on key- board smiley ?

[bluegreen]

I could use few med therms but lets make it plain.

She is over whatever bitchy hiss fit she was one scenario scenario two who ever she "met" and you can bet your med license on it there was someone was

NOT IT. So she found out that one the hard way no one does what she did and come out smelling like rose no one you hear me.

 

 

So now be a sucker walked all over like carpet love sick pup and take her back.

Or say TX no TX put your am sorry apology and your after 18 days e mail up yours.

 

 

Come you are gonna be M D are you really gonna let someone treat you like this use those brains of yours

[bubbaganoosh]

Honestly, if she can't muster the guts or the common decency to have at least ended it with you face to face or if far away, by a phone call where there is actual talking, then she ain't worth it.

 

It just goes to show the immaturity and lack of manners that one shows by not doing the right thing.

 

Yeah I'm a old man of 66 and when there was a breakup and I was either on the giving or receiving end of it, it was face to face or a phone call where I'm talking to a live person on the other end.

 

If she texts you back, then after you get over your heavy breathing and excitement, let her know that it's either a phone call or in person and a reason that your owed and if she can't do that then tell to to take her dancing fingers and text some other guy. Got a feeling you'll be doing yourself a favor.