6 months post breakup

[Kermit76]

I am doing fine. Moving my life along. Staying in no NC.

 

However, a family member of mine just told me she just found out thru

a mutual friend that my ex is asking about me, admitted she messed things up. Guess I'm kind of taken by surprise that this was related back to me. Also, why the hell is my ex seeing my friend that lives an hour away from her to reveal this info?

 

Things I know: I will not be contacting her..if she wants me to know these things she should tell me.

 

I am not disappointing myself with false hope.

 

I admit this bothers me so I guess I am not completely over her yet. But I did go to an event this week that I thought she was going to be at. I did not dress to impress, did not have butterflies, guess it didn't matter to me if I saw her or not. But hard to say that without really seeing her.

 

Guess what bothers me is I feel she is invading my privacy. Don't ask about me. You know my number if you want to reach out. I will listen.

 

Breakup story: Dated for two years, she dumped me. Pretty much have been in no contact except she reached out to me on my bd which was two months ago. When we texted she didn't ask a single question about my life but I guess is asking my friend specific questions. I don't get. I probably shouldn't care either. Sigh.

Edited March 7, 2014 by Kermit76

[ponchsox]

I'm also at the 6 month mark. I'm very content being single right now. If an opportunity comes along to date again, I'm going into it with a different mentality. I'm not setting expectations that cause me to end up disappointed. I won't settle, either. If someone happens to surprise me, I might date again.

[Kermit76]

I am ready to date soon too. Honestly, if my ex wanted to date again I would have to think long and hard. But I think I'm interested to see what else is out there. It's been a long hard road to get to this point. Maybe that's why I don't want to know maybe she still cares. I don't want any setbacks.