ponchsox Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 We've all said and done things below the belt after a hurtful breakup. What was your worst and do you regret it?
Kevin_D Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 When I was younger, I said tons of nasty stuff, but I don't remember the exact words. This time... Nothing. I have no regrets. And in a way, I regret that I didn't say anything stupid, because that would at least explain why she treated me like **** after the breakup.
LauBee20 Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 I could write a book on all the irrational things I did and said. 1
LostConfused123 Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 I sent him a text the next day after he dumped me. . . . I told him I would always care and be there for him if he needed me. Hahaha!!!! God, how pathetic!!! ((shudders)) 2
newmoon Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 I was young and he was my first heartbreak. I just signed him up for every gay magazine and porn site I could think of before I got bored doing that. I made sure to send everything to his parents' house so they could question him about the stuff. I didn't regret that I did it, only that I was wasting time doing it. It was just dumb. Never did anything like that again and learned to just walk away and not look back when you're dumped and/or hurt. That's the best revenge. 4
Kevin_D Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 I was young and he was my first heartbreak. I just signed him up for every gay magazine and porn site I could think of before I got bored doing that. I made sure to send everything to his parents' house so they could question him about the stuff. I didn't regret that I did it, only that I was wasting time doing it. It was just dumb. Never did anything like that again and learned to just walk away and not look back when you're dumped and/or hurt. That's the best revenge. HAHAHAHA! Almost like the song:
M30USA Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 I tend to just disappear unexpectedly when the relationship ends. I've learned that my exes didn't like this, and they would have rather I even spew hatred and revenge at them. Not my style. I just disappear. When you know it's over, it's over. 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 "I never loved you." While true, it was still said out of anger and to this day remains one of the lowest blows I've ever dealt.
Kopite Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 I tend to just disappear unexpectedly when the relationship ends. I've learned that my exes didn't like this, and they would have rather I even spew hatred and revenge at them. Not my style. I just disappear. When you know it's over, it's over. I do this too. Who cares if exes don't like this. **** them. 2
oracle Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 I helped my ex pack some of his heavy things into his packing container as he was moving back east. Hes pretty shy and self conscious and not overly sexual. I got the biggest black dildo I could find and I threw it into the container so it was somewhere near the bottom with all other heavy items. The d*ck did nothing to help me with my stuff so it was my last parting gift. I didn't do it outta anger, It was more outta fun and spite.. I still laugh when imagining him unpacking it with whatever newly made friends he has.
erklat Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Said since she is hanging out with sluts and lowlife, she will be whoring around soon enough and definitely should serve no example to anyone and especially not her sister who she loves dearly. I am sorry because I didn't go ninja immediately now.
WhiteTan Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Ugh, when my ex boyfriend was moving out, I literally told him that I hope one day things work out with the two of us again and that I love him with my whole mind, heart, and soul. You live and learn right? 2
chir Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 I said i am going to kill myself. Cut myself. Of course he don't care or bother to check on me. All the good images of me must had vanish the instant I said these. Not once or twice I think over 2 days.
TheyCallMeOx Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 (edited) When my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, I was kicked off her campus by the campus police. The biggest mistake I made was when I told the campus police that "I want[ed] to kill myself." My ex-girlfriend claimed there was still hope in getting back together, so I'm guessing my chances went from 0.2% to 0.01% after she was told by the campus police that they're taking me to the nearest hospital because he's having threats of suicide. Do I regret it? Well, everything was new to me so how I reacted was without previous experience on dealing with breakups. It was a very emotional moment for me, a very devastating experience, and I don't really blame myself for having those thoughts. However, I regret telling the police that. I should've kept my big mouth shut. However, it later proved to be an opportunity to learn more about myself. If I had not told the police that I wanted to kill myself and had I not have spent 7 hours at a hospital waiting room, I probably wouldn't know that I was unhappy with my life. I don't regret the feelings I've had, but I do regret scaring my ex-girlfriend into believing that I was going to kill myself based on a decision that she felt was best. Edited March 7, 2014 by TheyCallMeOx Didn't answer the other question 3
Saurren Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 I didn't say anything, but I felt numb when those words came and I just walked away from it and went NC. I regret not trying to communicate and word it out, but I know I will just beg so I didn't try anymore. Still hurts, but I'm getting stronger everyday by going stress free switching to not giving a f--ck anymore.
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