shinealight Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 When will people realise they have a girlfriend/boyfriend? I mean they phone you up asking if you want to come round and the clothes come off ext. And they moan how there relationship is bad but still love there girlfriend/boyfriend ext. When will they grow up? I mean you clearly cannot love your'e boyfriend/girlfriend if you are sleeping with someone else. Rant over! 1
Tayla Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 Observation sure doesn't make some the wiser. Sorry that you had to at some point be privy to peoples poor choices. Oddly, swingers can love their spouses yet chose alternate partners. Also some folks genuinely love their significant other yet thru circumstances separate love from desire. Stay true to yourself and leave the tomfoolry to the fools.
BradJacobs Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 Maybe they aren't lying? Alternatively if this happens frequently, I would advise you to figure out why you invite such behavior.
preraph Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 Not saying one answer fits all, but I think a majority of people who see others while professing love with their bf/gf/spouse are people who need an ego fix. They are low self-esteem and need constant reassurance they are attractive. They say that's at the root of sex addiction or whatever you want to call not seeming to be able to stop. And then of course some of them don't know what love is and don't have enough empathy to care how it's hurting the one they say they love. People with that little empathy really don't know what love is.
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