Firehead94 Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Ok so one of my female friends is bringing 2 other friends of hers. So Im gonna be the only boy there and I have never met her friends. Is this gonna be awkward? If so, how do i prevent it from being awkward? We are going to dinner then bowling. I am sooooo freakin nervous!! and theyre all older than me too, please someone help and give me tips
David87 Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Ok so one of my female friends is bringing 2 other friends of hers. So Im gonna be the only boy there and I have never met her friends. Is this gonna be awkward? If so, how do i prevent it from being awkward? We are going to dinner then bowling. I am sooooo freakin nervous!! and theyre all older than me too, please someone help and give me tips Are you platonic friends? FWB or what? Try being yourself and you'll be fine. Imagine that you go out with your guy friends.
central Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 You are your own worst enemy here. You are going out and doing an activity. Just have fun, don't worry about it if you can help yourself. The more you TRY to be one way or another, the more you'll screw it up. Calm down, this outing means little, really - or nothing you can do anything about in a good way if you don't relax.
avoforastig Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Don't sweat it. You seem to be assuming they will be judging you in some way. One of the hardest things to learn to do is not put women on a pedestal. You should never feel inferior to another person. Its a two way street and women need to prove their "worthiness" to you. Be confident! You can do it! If you want to make a good impression on the other hand, there see certainly factors you can control. Make sure you put your best version of you forward. That means groom yourself well and wear well-fitting, somewhat stylish clothes, they don't need to be designer. You can also be a good listener, genuinely compliment people, and ask questions about them. Also, it's good to avoid hot button topics like politics around people you don't know well. Believe that no women are on a pedestal and you will succeed! 1
LEEVIT2F8 Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 First of all your in for a great time my friend. I take it by your post that none of these are romantic interests. Just be friendly with all the girls. Relax and have a good time just like hanging out with your guy friends. I personally love hanging out with groups of girls. Worst case scenario you have a great time and end up with three wingwomen. Live the dream young man!!
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