hurt1086 Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Ok so me and my ex-fiance broke up 4 years ago after she cheated on me numerous times. About a year and a half ago we starting talking again just as friends. Well we stay in contact usually only talking or texting on occasion maybe every few odd months. 2 weeks ago she messaged me online, and after I didn't see that message she text me asking if I had skype and to get on. Well we skyped and we talked about how we both were doing etc. She started talking about the problems that her and the guy she is dating (again after he left her for his wife before) have been having and started talking about how she is staying around cause she remembers when her and I went through problems but they got better etc. Then she spoke about how I guess my name came up one day and she had made a comment saying that I wasn't a bad guy etc and he got mad about it. It then shifted to her saying she had sent him a picture (since he is currently away for training for a month) and that he got mad about it cause he was around people when she sent it and not to send those pictures etc. She then said she was gonna send it to me and wanted to know if I would have reacted the same way...well she sent me the picture and it ended up being a sexy picture (not nude but lingerie). Also throughout the conversation she had asked me if I thought she looked the same or looked different etc. I have my ideas behind some of why, but I was just looking for a few outside opinions on the matter.
Poppyolive Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 I would think shes fishing to find out if shes still got it, still find her hot . I wouldn't even bother.. These are probably the messages she sent other men when she was with you. Cycle.. .cycle.. Run fast dude!! We have a level 10 clinger in our hands 1
Eggplant Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Her conversations with you are DISLOYAL and backstabbing to her current guy. Imagine that you and she are having problems, and she starts gossiping behind your back to other guys about private matters. These small betrayals are what opens the door to cheating. And that's your experience with her, right? 1
Canucklehead Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 This woman sounds like she is a little unscrupulous. You might want to keep your distance or you may get caught up in her web. Tread carefully dude
Quiet Storm Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 I think this woman has an unhealthy need for attention and validation. No guy will ever be able to fulfill her. She will always be on the prowl for male attention. Once she can get a particular man to pay attention & give compliments, his attention won't be as "valuable" to her anymore. She will seek another supply (YOU- for now). She will also play two men against each other because it strokes her ego and makes her feel special. See how she set up the conversation...telling you about her & her boyfriends problems, pointing out how he got mad about the photo, and then hinting "But YOU wouldn't get mad at me for that, would you?" She's creating the drama she craves so much by trying to set up a competition. She is like a bucket with a hole in it... you can't never fill it up. It's sad.
TaserTag Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Sounds like she was using you as an ego boost, wanting someone to fawn over how hot she is. She cheated on you and is cheating on her current guy. Same old game playing.
hotpotato Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Sounds like she was using you as an ego boost, wanting someone to fawn over how hot she is. She cheated on you and is cheating on her current guy. Same old game playing. Sounds like she's a home wrecker as well. Imo it would be best to stay far away from her.
Snipercatt Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 She's a drama llama. I'd make myself scarce and I wouldn't respond to her communications.
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