Author Bodgerthebadger Posted February 22, 2014 Author Share Posted February 22, 2014 I agree it is impossible not to forget. One of her big criticisms of me at the moment is that I keep referring to what has happened when she is willing to not do so. Its in my interest not to talk about the past but I am keen to use what has happened to change. I just think she won't do it - for example she didn't speak to a member of her family for a long time after an argument. I can't imagine ever doing that. Her personality is one where she is likely to carry things for a long time so not to face it would seem like a recipe for problems. I think hyper sensitive is a fair comment. My sister referred to it as issues with not being in control - so if someone behaves in a way you dont like you can't accept it you feel you want to control it. Its definitely linked to issues from family history where divorce etc influences your views as a child as to what a partner needs to be. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts