blind_otter Posted January 21, 2005 Share Posted January 21, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale No, BLINDOTTER, lets get this straight here... What you mean was that you are not interested in the type of romantic relationship he's seeking at this time WITH HIM. Ok. guilty. I mean, I don't want to be exclusive with anyone because, to be honest, I am having a lot of fun flirting with boys and girls lately..... But I would never date this guy anyways, so there ya go, yer right. Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceisles Posted January 21, 2005 Author Share Posted January 21, 2005 Originally posted by MassiveAtom Can I get a Amen!?!? I actually feel liberated not dealing with her anymore. I say - if you ain't comin' back for more, let me show ya the door. Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceisles Posted January 21, 2005 Author Share Posted January 21, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter Ok. guilty. I mean, I don't want to be exclusive with anyone because, to be honest, I am having a lot of fun flirting with boys and girls lately..... But I would never date this guy anyways, so there ya go, yer right. Otter, check your PMs. Link to post Share on other sites
MassiveAtom Posted January 21, 2005 Share Posted January 21, 2005 Why yes, it's Womanese! Otter, you're the best! LOL!! This is great! Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceisles Posted January 22, 2005 Author Share Posted January 22, 2005 For once I'd like to have someone actually come to their senses and apologize for acting so bitc*y. Like that will ever happen! Link to post Share on other sites
MassiveAtom Posted January 22, 2005 Share Posted January 22, 2005 Originally posted by iceisles For once I'd like to have someone actually come to their senses and apologize for acting so bitc*y. Like that will ever happen! ROTFLMAO!!!! :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: Oh god, :lmao: :lmao:It's like :lmao:asking her to :lmao:stand up and sit down :lmao: :lmao: at the same time!! :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceisles Posted January 22, 2005 Author Share Posted January 22, 2005 Originally posted by MassiveAtom ROTFLMAO!!!! :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: Oh god, :lmao: :lmao:It's like :lmao:asking her to :lmao:stand up and sit down :lmao: :lmao: at the same time!! :lmao: I have a better chance of pulling a $100 bill out of my ass before I get an apology. Oh, wait, I spoke too soon... Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted January 22, 2005 Share Posted January 22, 2005 Originally posted by iceisles I have a better chance of pulling a $100 bill out of my ass before I get an apology. Oh, wait, I spoke too soon... more like a $100,000 bill AND getting hit by lightning at the same time Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceisles Posted January 22, 2005 Author Share Posted January 22, 2005 If we get screwed over so often, why do we bother to keep on trying? Link to post Share on other sites
MassiveAtom Posted January 22, 2005 Share Posted January 22, 2005 Because It's hard for guys like us to fall in love with another guy's hairy @$$!! Link to post Share on other sites
debs Posted January 22, 2005 Share Posted January 22, 2005 Ice, It is nice to see your sense of humor through all what has transpired this week is intact! Ah, yeah I must admit you did the inevitiable and pushed her buttons when she needed you to back off and let her sort through all the stressors that have recently popped up. She gives me the impression she is way too independent and is one who deals with things on her own! Can you say introvert? Ah too bad so sad to her! I would have welcomed a shoulder to cry on when life deals those type of blows! You will get back in the swing of finding your match for life! Your a sweetie so stay that way and don't change for anyone! You are you and that is way you should remain! The weekend has begun and time to find some fun..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceisles Posted January 22, 2005 Author Share Posted January 22, 2005 Originally posted by debs Ah, yeah I must admit you did the inevitiable and pushed her buttons when she needed you to back off and let her sort through all the stressors that have recently popped up. Yeah, I drove this one right into the ground. Even the Enron CEO's admire me. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted January 22, 2005 Share Posted January 22, 2005 Originally posted by debs Your a sweetie so stay that way and don't change for anyone! You are you and that is way you should remain! this is worst advice i've ever heard. "Don't change for anyone" HA ha HA.... "Jes be yerself". HA ha hAH If one does not constantly change, learn and adapt to their environment then they will die out. Link to post Share on other sites
MassiveAtom Posted January 22, 2005 Share Posted January 22, 2005 Change or die! Alpha, That's my freakin Motto, You're scaring me Man, I better ask my mom if I had a twin at birth! LOL! MA Link to post Share on other sites
debs Posted January 22, 2005 Share Posted January 22, 2005 I see alpha is on a roll today hehehehehehe Well I wouldn't want anyone to change for the other person just to appease them! And alpha you change and the shack would crumble....MA who cares if your the "evil" twin, hmmmm..... Both of you know we cannot make people change they must do so themselves and from reading about Ice and his journeys their is nothing wrong with him. The lady just happens to not want to date perhaps or a relationship right now! Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceisles Posted January 22, 2005 Author Share Posted January 22, 2005 Originally posted by debs From reading about Ice and his journeys their is nothing wrong with him. That's not what my therapist said. J/K. Who knows, maybe she will come around and see that I had good intentions. I'm definitely not gonna hope or wait for that, though. Link to post Share on other sites
debs Posted January 22, 2005 Share Posted January 22, 2005 *snickering* Who would truly wait? OPS I didn't just say that allot on here do wait!!?? Well it is blowing snow and cold out so this is a day for lounging around and staying in doors! Ice, do take care and know you did give it your best shot. As I said she may not really want a relationship ( you did mention she just got out of a bad one right?)?? She may have thought she was ready but she isn't and maybe this is her way of telling you? I hope that is not the case but it is a possibility!? Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceisles Posted January 22, 2005 Author Share Posted January 22, 2005 Originally posted by debs As I said she may not really want a relationship ( you did mention she just got out of a bad one right?)?? She may have thought she was ready but she isn't and maybe this is her way of telling you? I hope that is not the case but it is a possibility!? She told me she wasn't ready yet. I said I was going to be patient and had no problem waiting, but obviously I was still too aggressive for her. Looks like I did a little too much dancing on that high wire. Link to post Share on other sites
Midwest guy Posted January 22, 2005 Share Posted January 22, 2005 I talked to my crush today also Isles fan as you might have read in my post. I didnt really bring up the dating thing though just more friendly and asked how she was doing. She might be doing a internship this summer though so I might not see her for along time I told her I would like to take her out and hang out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceisles Posted January 22, 2005 Author Share Posted January 22, 2005 Originally posted by Midwest guy I told her I would like to take her out and hang out. What did she say? Did she seem open to the possibility? Whatever you do, PLEASE play your situation conservative. I don't want you to have the same outcome I did. You may not be able to make things go well, but it's definitely easy to screw them up. P.S. Man, you and I need hockey to cheer us up. Link to post Share on other sites
Midwest guy Posted January 22, 2005 Share Posted January 22, 2005 Originally posted by iceisles I really liked the way you phrased # 3 - I think I will say it just like that. I agree with your second statement - if there's someone I like, I would find time somehow. But keep in mind, she may like me, just not to that level yet. I mean, you have to be pretty crazy about someone to want to cram them into your busy schedule. Well I told her I want to hang out with her sometime and she said ok. I didnt really bring it up though cause I mean she knows Im crazy about her lol which I think might have turned her off. bad thing is she might not be back at work or in town much I wish hockey was going on cause when she was down I could have bought tickets to a Blues game and asked her to go with me. Damn. Read my other post for more details. Link to post Share on other sites
Midwest guy Posted January 23, 2005 Share Posted January 23, 2005 Isles fan I sent you a pm Link to post Share on other sites
Author iceisles Posted January 24, 2005 Author Share Posted January 24, 2005 She IM'd me tonight: Her: Hey i am sorry about the other night if i sounded rude i am just dealing with a lot right now and a realtionship is the last thing i need right now Me: Its ok, im the one who should apologize. I have been pestering you a lot lately. I wrote you an apology e-mail on MySpace. Her: Ok, I'll check it later. Thanks. I can't talk, though - have HW. Me: Ok, have a good night. Talk to you soon. I thought maybe this was just a conscience cover, but it seems genuine to me and confirms my suspicions that I was placing an additional burden on her. I will not call or e-mail her for a long while and play this VERY safely from here. I know this could be a second chance, and I'll be damned if screw this one up. Do you all generally agree that it was good that she messaged me to apologize? Link to post Share on other sites
debs Posted January 24, 2005 Share Posted January 24, 2005 Could be Ice!!! Guess back off and see what happens!!?? Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted January 24, 2005 Share Posted January 24, 2005 Originally posted by iceisles I thought maybe this was just a conscience cover, but it seems genuine to me and confirms my suspicions that I was placing an additional burden on her. I will not call or e-mail her for a long while and play this VERY safely from here. I know this could be a second chance, and I'll be damned if screw this one up. Do you all generally agree that it was good that she messaged me to apologize? HAhHAHAHAHHAAHAHHHA HA AA Aah HA AHAA AAHAH AAHA HA Link to post Share on other sites
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