nyny123 Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 I just met this guy. The problem is I'm not attracted to him. I like his personality so far. He seems intelligent and mature and I like that in a man. I know it isn't about looks. I am still interested in seeing how things go I want to give him a chance and I'm still want to keep my options open and I'm aware of that.
Lansing Posted January 20, 2014 Posted January 20, 2014 I think the thing is that the guy can be reacting off your disinterest and it could be creating qualities that you don't find as attractive. Is this the same guy from your other thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/455322-he-s-been-divorced-7-months-have-kid-way#post5465968 I actually checked your posting history to make sure you weren't the girl I am dating now With this girl, I find she is giving me mixed signals and I am starting to wonder if she is physically attracted which is causing me to second guess myself and to limit my actions/change my behaviour. If it is the guy in the above post/link then I think it goes beyond a lack of physical attraction and it is a pretty complicated situation so I can see why you are doubting your attraction to him.
Author nyny123 Posted January 20, 2014 Author Posted January 20, 2014 I think the thing is that the guy can be reacting off your disinterest and it could be creating qualities that you don't find as attractive. Is this the same guy from your other thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/455322-he-s-been-divorced-7-months-have-kid-way#post5465968 I actually checked your posting history to make sure you weren't the girl I am dating now With this girl, I find she is giving me mixed signals and I am starting to wonder if she is physically attracted which is causing me to second guess myself and to limit my actions/change my behaviour. If it is the guy in the above post/link then I think it goes beyond a lack of physical attraction and it is a pretty complicated situation so I can see why you are doubting your attraction to him. Haha yes that's the guy I'm talking about. Now I met him because he told me the situation about his ex wife, the baby and the divorce so I was comfortable meeting him and I feel in my gut he is telling the truth about the situation
d0nnivain Posted January 21, 2014 Posted January 21, 2014 If you aren't attracted to somebody I think it's better to end things rather then drag them out & possibly hurt the person more later as they developed a greater attachment.
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