romantic1389 Posted January 5, 2014 Share Posted January 5, 2014 Ok, so I met up with this girl that I was talking to on OKcupid. I haven't dated in a long while because I was recovering from a breakup. So it has been about 3 years since I have been on a date, and before then I haden't dated much to begin with. I am 25. The girl I went on a date with is 20. She was wonderful! She was cute, funny, interesting, I like everything about her! I THOUGHT the date was going really well, but when we were taking a walk after dinner, she said she had to get home. It was 8:30! She said she was tired (she had mentioned she had been unpacking earlier that day) So I tried not to read much into it. I walked her to her car in a crowded parking structure with cars following us to get a parking space... I thought **** I cant really get a moment alone with her. So we got to her car, I went in for the hug and then after the hug, stayed in close and went for a kiss. I got it, but I think I stayed to long cause it was really short and I kinda went back in for another but yea.. it was awkard! but she was smiling at least! I asked her when I could see her again, and she said she was really busy with school, but maybe next weekend sometime? I can't read this girl for ****. When I like a girl alot, I can't read any signals or anything so I have no idea if she actually likes me or not :/. I am just a complete boob when it comes to this stuff. I don't know how to proceed from this point, I know that she logged on to OKCupid this morning (the day after the date) so that can't be a good sign. I don't know. I probably sound like a complete idiot, but I just hope someone can talk some sense into me. Cause im confused and want to see this girl again. Link to post Share on other sites
MrMeh Posted January 5, 2014 Share Posted January 5, 2014 Clearly not into you. She planned the evening for a date and still ended it short. Link to post Share on other sites
Author romantic1389 Posted January 5, 2014 Author Share Posted January 5, 2014 I forgot to mention, I texted/called her after the date when i got home and asked if she got home safe. She texted back and she said yes, I had a really nice time tonight, thanks for taking me! Link to post Share on other sites
winny Posted January 5, 2014 Share Posted January 5, 2014 How long was the date? Link to post Share on other sites
Author romantic1389 Posted January 5, 2014 Author Share Posted January 5, 2014 about 2.5 hours. Was dinner, and then we walked around a little. Link to post Share on other sites
winny Posted January 5, 2014 Share Posted January 5, 2014 2.5 hrs is a long time... I would say do not give up yet. Around mid week... send her a text asking if she is still interested in meeting during the weekend. See how she responds. Please please please... meanwhile... do not dream and think about her a lot and build castles in the air. And date other girls too... I have not done a lot of dating myself and when I started this Sept... I have been facing difficulties too. What I have learnt is... do not fall for anyone so fast and do not keep them as your only option... until u have the exclusivity talk... anything can happen.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author romantic1389 Posted January 8, 2014 Author Share Posted January 8, 2014 update: I am picking her up on Saturday (tentatively) to take her on a date to the science center! wohoo! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
winny Posted January 8, 2014 Share Posted January 8, 2014 update: I am picking her up on Saturday (tentatively) to take her on a date to the science center! wohoo! Why tentative? From your end or hers? Link to post Share on other sites
Author romantic1389 Posted January 9, 2014 Author Share Posted January 9, 2014 from her end, I just talked with her again today, and I'm pretty sure it's going to happen Link to post Share on other sites
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