thegrouch Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 My ex and I have been broken up for almost 5 months now. We were together for 4 years, and my first time in love. Since then there has been no contact initiated by her. I did all the begging and promising to change for the first couple of months. I initiated the breakup after a stupid fight. Little did I know that she had someone on the sidelines and has been with him since that night. I have only been full NC for about a month but since the breakup we have only exchanged a few texts in which she was very cold. I realize that she probably checked out of the relationship earlier and I had no idea. I also realize she isn't in love with me anymore since she got a new bf so quickly. For some reason today I just want to call or text and tell her I still love her. I know its a bad idea its just so hard.
lostsoul4286 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I'm in the same position. We gotta hang in there, I made the same mistake because I didn't understand my ex.
Am4Real Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 This post may help you understand the urges you feel: LINK
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