picnicinthepark Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Having a weak moment/day so I had to stop by. Every day that I don't do something stupid like contacting my ex, etc. I count as a win. Sad. But it is what it is. Your strength gives me strength. I'm in a similar situation where my now ex-girlfriend of almost 5 years out of the blue decides we have too many irreconcilable issues and won't even fight for us. Not having any real closure makes it that much more difficult. I'm sorry to hear that your ex rebounded so soon too. I dread the day that my ex meets someone new. The idea alone makes me very upset. I think NC is the best idea for you and I both. It's been just about 2 weeks for me so this is all fairly fresh. I have weak moments too and entertain the idea of messaging or calling her only to come to the realization that it will bring no good. It was a good idea for you to post on LS. I will be doing the same the next time I'm tempted. There is so much support on these forums. Just know that you are capable of great love and that one day everything is going to be okay. You're gonna be great! We're all gonna be great! I look forward to hearing about your progress and hope you're doing okay. Hang in there! Feel free to reach out for anything! Also make sure to read my thread and provide any insight if possible. Sudden Breakup After Almost 5 Years
Author TxJD79 Posted February 4, 2014 Author Posted February 4, 2014 It did hurt that he rebounded so soon but it was almost sort of easier then because he wasn't "available" you know? But he dumped the rebound girl a few weeks ago and now it's tougher to not think about a possibility with us...don't get me wrong. he has not given me a single hint of anything. But i feel what i feel. Not much i can do.
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