Little_Confused Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 I am so so sorry I think as a complete newbie I posted my thread to not the right forum and now cannot move or delete it Could anyone please help me with my issue by replying to the thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/451422-what-does-man-think p.s. we were together for 2 years. Looking forward to your thoughts. would be grateful for any support.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Some people need to have no contact to regain their sense of self. Their strength. He seems to be over stressed. If he does have too many jobs on his shoulders, all this work could be altering his mood. Causing mood swings. It does sound amciible. Maybe there is hope for something. But...I must tell you, that, with you two far away...and with this now, it is still bleak. My advice: Do not wait around forever for this guy. Start here and now, working on your life and those things you may need to do or want to do with it. Do not waste your life and time sitting around worrying over him. If things are meant to be, he and you will get back together. It does seem like a mutual breakup. Although, he is the one who initiated it... Hopefully other posters provide you with a clearer answer. ..am I unable to think clearly now. I just couldn't bear seeing you ask for help, and no one there to help you...it is the weekend...things are slow around here. Btw...I replied to this thread. It should be all the same. As i read your other thread, in the link provided. Sorry.
Author Little_Confused Posted December 28, 2013 Author Posted December 28, 2013 He always was my plan A, the one who I trully worshipped, but seeing that he can just let me go for good and that this is The End. This broke my heart.
2fargone Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 He always was my plan A, the one who I trully worshipped, but seeing that he can just let me go for good and that this is The End. This broke my heart. Just one question... you worshipped him. Are you a submissive then ? I'm not trying to be smart here, just trying to figure out your mindset in all of this.
Author Little_Confused Posted December 29, 2013 Author Posted December 29, 2013 please apologise me english is not my mother tongue. By saying this I mean I cherished him, he was precious to me as a man whom I loved. it was the first time i felt that where he is this is my home, and when I felt that I would like to have children. I guess for me he became my family and it's hard to let go. and especially to accept that he did not think of me in the same way.
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