Anethen Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 It's been 2.5 months since the break up. These last few weeks have been especially hard for me. I feel like I have back tracked and I'm having obsessive thoughts about getting back together again. I had these thoughts for the first month but they went away once I found out he started hanging out with another girl. Then for the second month, I decided to be a little angry and just say f it, if he doesn't wanna be with me then why am I wasting my time crying over him? So I went out and had some fun and tried to ignore my thoughts of him as much as I could. I decided to not obsess and that I was better off without him. But now starting on the third month, I've realized I've just been lying to myself. Idk if I'm better off without him. He made me SO happy and he was my best friend. I'm starting to really miss him and I have urges to text him. Last month, I was optimistic that things would get better and that I'm just going to focus on myself and let my life fall into place, but now I feel like I'll never get better. I just wish things could go back to the way they were before the BU. I feel like my life has no purpose and that nothing can make me happy again but him. What should I do? I just want these thoughts to go away and to feel better, but I can't 1
Mariposa10 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Sadly you won't be able to move on until you have cut contact completely... Check out this thread, it might help you a little bit!! http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/428802-inspirational-quotes 1
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