gentle_male Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 Hi All, You can see my previous thread at: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/396530-heard-ex-after-more-than-year-thoughts After many months passed with no contact, two days ago, she wrote me a very friendly, happy SMS asking to have lunch with me. I declined, to which she asked for dinner. I declined again. She was persistent and asked even to see me just for 5 minutes anywhere, anytime I could. So I said what the heck, she can take me to dinner. So, she picked me up and from the moment we were in the car, with no talk of the past, we were laughing like when we first met. No romantic talk at all. We had a wonderful dinner where she was very interested in me and kept asking about me (she hadn't done this in many years). After, we went for a walk and she took and held my hand as we were walking. In these years, I've become very confident and more care-free so I didn't react. I just held her hand, not pulling away, nor holding it tight and getting emotional. We walked and talked for hours. For once, she didn't look at her watch or anything. She said her family still had hopes that we would get back together. Then, at the end of the night when I said goodbye (again not getting emotional or even asking when I would see her again or what she wanted), she kissed me on the lips and held me and my hands for 5 minutes really tight, she was always looking at our hands together. I still didn't react or ask her anything. She asked when will she see me next and I said I don't know. She said, I hope very soon. I'm away now for 3 weeks. She didn't mention getting back together or anything. Very unexpected day, in every way ha! Thoughts or Questions?
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