TheVoski Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 (edited) My wife left me last Oct for another guy (look at my previous posts and you'll see how dramatic and traumatic it was). Before leaving me she knew the guy two months max. I'm 28 and she is 27. The divorce was finalized in April and I have sole physical custody of our 5 year old daughter with her having joint legal visitation. I found out in July that she just found out she is pregnant by him and they are getting married Oct 5 (marriage #2 with her starting it by being pregnant). She quit her job when she found out she was pregnant and her fiance is a convict who went to jail for 18 months when he was 20 for vehicular manslaughter. She is head over heels for this guy who is 25. I went through a deep depression. Now I just sit in anger and constantly have her on my mind. Like every move I do is to show her up or make her jealous. I just want to move on and be happy. Original Posts: https://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/354372-my-wife-left-me#post4356959 https://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/separation-divorce/388507-need#post4825991 Edited September 23, 2013 by TheVoski Link to post Share on other sites
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hayewils Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 you don't have to try and make her jealous. sounds to me she is in a situation that will take care of itself, unfortunately for her. You need to try to move on and forget about it, she is pregnant by another man, that's enough to make me run and be happy that its him and not me. seriously seems to me that she did you a favor. you will see that in time. just take care of your child, yourself and work on being happy. I was a single father of 3. my ex ran off, shacked up, quit her job, got pregnant, lost her car.. was in a really crappy situation. I was in pain for a couple months but when I knew she was shacked up, it made my heart turn and run.. She did do me a favor. You will find that out for yourself one day. Link to post Share on other sites
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