Dmitry Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 My original thread is located at http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/420766-will-she-come-back After 2 days of NC here's the text msg history what i got from her. Do i have a chance to get her back or should i just give up now? After asking her if i have a chance to be back with her she told me: No,No chance and no one else,There,We need to go our separate ways for good,don't want us to hurt each other anymore,Get your education move on have fun life your life,It was nice meeting you and I had good times thanks for that,Wish you the best goodbye. 2 hrs later: Just want to say one last thing I'm still confused about all this I still love you who knows maybe ill realize I made a mistake and go back to you or let you back in but until then I want to be friends best friends. Next morning: we can try one last time just don't hurt me again No more lies no bs no trying to make me jealous for no reason or attention That's all I ask 1hr later:Nvm forget what I said,I know it's better to be friends,I'm being dumb. Later that day around 8pm: Ok so you are gonna ignore me,If that's the case lets not talk then,I won't say mean things about you if you don't,Lets keep this a clean nice break up.Bc we did have good times and I thank you for that you are special. Next day i broke NC and told her this : I don't want to break up or lose you, I love you so much, but I'm really hurt too hurt to talk about it anymore and I want you to have your space like you asked so I don't keep hurting you either. But I LOVE you and do not want to lose you, I just want to do the right thing And she replied with this: I don't mind space or talking bc I like talking to you You can still talk to me I don't mind I'd rather have you as a friend than to loose you I love you too just don't loose me as a friend I think it's worth keeping If you don't I understand. afterwards is just a casual talk. Is she playing hard to get or just wants me as a friend?
xanitus Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 NC. she frienzoned you to allow you to be a cushion whilst she moves on. You keep talking to her and it will get worse for you. NC her and you can recover and she will probably realize she made a mistake from her texts anyway. 2
Author Dmitry Posted September 1, 2013 Author Posted September 1, 2013 NC. she frienzoned you to allow you to be a cushion whilst she moves on. You keep talking to her and it will get worse for you. NC her and you can recover and she will probably realize she made a mistake from her texts anyway. thank you i will take your advise. Let's see what's going to happen i'm going to remove her from fb and all the social media.
GG3 Posted September 1, 2013 Posted September 1, 2013 When you didn't respond to her response to give it one last time, she took it as a no response from you. Why didn't you write her back!
Author Dmitry Posted September 1, 2013 Author Posted September 1, 2013 When you didn't respond to her response to give it one last time, she took it as a no response from you. Why didn't you write her back! I was driving to college. Saw it after.
Ireallydontknow Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 If you go back you'll get burned. I wasted another year of my life getting a "second chance." All that second chance was, giving her a year to make sure her new boyfriend was out of his current relationship. Don't waste your time. Not many second chances work out. Maybe years and years down the road when you both mature as human beings. Find your joy and go NC. Stay strong!
Author Dmitry Posted September 2, 2013 Author Posted September 2, 2013 If you go back you'll get burned. I wasted another year of my life getting a "second chance." All that second chance was, giving her a year to make sure her new boyfriend was out of his current relationship. Don't waste your time. Not many second chances work out. Maybe years and years down the road when you both mature as human beings. Find your joy and go NC. Stay strong! Thank you.
Ireallydontknow Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Thank you. You're welcome. I could of been a year+ moved on now. Instead I believed the lies and got manipulated for selfish reasons. It hurts like hell, spare yourself the hurt. Move on now, think of the things you didn't like about her and maybe, just maybe, one day when she turns from girl to woman it might work. Don't get cheated on, don't give her anymore time of day. Fight for someone that is worth it even it is for you.
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