Author GlassesSeventy Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 I agree with you...she went about it the wrong way. My ex did it in a frustrating way as well. Your experience got me the courage to start my own thread because it's a terrible way to go about breakups. Really? Where is your thread?
TrblinMN Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/415794-couldn-t-say-during-our-breakup#post5126180
Lei Ping Posted August 12, 2013 Posted August 12, 2013 Which she is entitled to feel - but the way she went about was wrong, IMO. Thanks for your message, also. They wrote a song about it. Want to hear it? Here it goes: Paul Simon - 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover (Live From Philadelphia) - YouTube There are no instantaneous "deep connections" There are no 1 month, 1x sex "love affairs" There will continue to be problems with the opposite sex if you fail to realize that you will not find "Ms. Right" because you put an ad out on craigslist or in the newspaper. It doesn't work like that. You had a fling with a Young Woman who enjoys having flings. There is no lingering allowed in the fling business and it has to stay brand new, all the time to work. All that stuff the two of you had in common, that's the same stuff everybody thinks they have in common, I mean really, who comes out and says "I'm looking for someone to play around with until I figure out what I really want"? ...and the "break-up"? It wasn't a real affair so it doesn't justify a properly orchestrated breakup with a dinner and a speech and all. With the fling you get a text. It wasn't really a nasty, hurtful text either and it's obvious that she was trying to let you down nicely. The next one will not be so nice and may involve a restraining order. walk away..... 1
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