trin250 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 I made a thread here about 3 weeks ago about this guy I'm dating click me. There's the link just for background info. Aside from that weird couple of days where he was being distant and not as communicative as he was when we first met, he's been pretty much back to normal. We're both pretty busy so we've only had one date since then (last tuesday) and text everyday. The thing is, I still can't shake this feeling that something is or will go wrong. I do have anxiety of some sort (I've never been diagnosed but I know that constant worry about nothing isn't normal). So... what am I worried about? 1. Our texts get pretty boring and repetitive after awhile. Typical "hey how are you" type stuff. Also, he usually initiates but then replies with one word texts:confused: 2. When I initiate texts, I text interesting things, pictures anything other than the norm because I don't want him to think I'm boring. But he continues with the one word replies. 3. He hasn't asked me out again yet and it's been over a week. I asked him out to a movie but he said he needs to get his paycheck. I forgot to mention that it would be on me but he said he couldn't allow that .. I just can't read this guy. He always says how lucky he is that I like him, and asks if I really do like him, but then he does stuff like above. In person he's super affectionate. I've also become more comfortable and affectionate with him. This is getting long so I'll end it here. Basically, do you guys still think that his interest is minimal? Or do you think he's just not a big texter and that I should get a professional diagnosis of generalised anxiety
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