theonlyjuan Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 Every girl I have ever been with, I have treated them very well. I have always taken them out, bought them things, been honest, said nice things, never really argued. It's not an act, it's who I am. I am a nice person and like to treat people I like, properly. It seems all my relationships fail over time. Maybe it gets boring for them, I dunno. It just annoys me so much. I do all the right things, and some jerk who treats girls like garbage manages to make things last. It really makes me want to just act like everyone else and treat them the same. I just can't ever seem to win. What is wrong with me? I really don't know if I can go through another breakup like this. I find myself really doubting myself and am probably now scared to open myself up to anyone again. I don't want to be like other jerks, I don't even think I have it in me. Will this ever get me anywhere in life? It has not so far I'm just so fed up with the same old story Grrrr
PR08 Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 Believe me, I know where you are coming from, but never change yourself or your principles for someone else. You just need to be a bit more stubborn and live for yourself instead of constantly trying to please someone else. 1
OJ loved Nicole Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 Not being a nice guy doesn't mean you have to be a jerk..... What you should strive for is balanced guy. I'm a recovering "Nice Guy", I know how you feel. 2 members on LS turned me onto a book, Dr. Robert Glover's "No More Mr. Nice Guy!". The "Thanks All" link below is where I first read about it. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/350681-thanks-all Warning: (if you are a nice guy) This book is life altering, like Neo taking the red pill. After reading it you wil either be forced to change/morph, or tormented for the rest of your life everytime you notice "Nice Guy" behavior and don't have the balls to do something about it.
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