Aicha Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 my boyfriend deleted me from skype during his trip abroad with his family. before that we used to chat on skype when he was free. he works abroad on and off so he has gone abroad for a month now and i looked at his skype and it has the option to resent a friend request to him. he still texts me and calls me as he usually does and the relationship is great apart from this in my head, wondering why he would delete me. i am not sure why he would delete me from skype :/ i have not asked him why he deleted me on there because he rarely was online anyway and i dont want to seem as though i am spying on his skype profile which now is obviously inactive to me. when we did video chat it would be for a short amount of time because he always has work to do. just wondering if anyone has any advice or opinions. Thanks in advance
charlietheginger Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 Bastards skyping another chick. He dont want you To see he is online.... Create a new profile spy on his skype i bet 99% This is what's going on...... If you even wanted to catch him in skype chat rooms And under your new name chat with him Use a wig and lots of makeup...... Flirt suggest sexskyping..... When he wipes out his dong rip off your wig and say Were done CREEP!
Sweeetie Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 I'd be worried- talk to him about it. You are not "spying" on his Skype account; you are just getting 'friendship resend' requests from Skype which you can tell him. Don't let this drag on- the fact that he is abroad when this is happening is causing me concern. Not to get you worried but you don't know what he's up to. There might be another girl he met recently while there. Sometimes when guys go abroad they are more inclined to cheat on their girlfriends and clues for this entail reducing contact with their girlfriends. And they delay telling you until months have gone by, You need to bring up the Skype thing with him now.
Ripnet Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 Why don't you just ask him? You're in a relationship now if someone bothers you, you should be mature enough to ask questions.
snowflakes88 Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 If this is the same bf who told you he wanted to have sex with other people, I think this is just another on a long list of bad signs.
carhill Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Looking at the backstory, I'd call this one canary of many. You can surely bring it up during a conversation but, if it's anything like the FB conversation, the resolution will likely be nebulous and not confidence-inspiring. At my age, I'd move on. At your age, I understand perspective is different. Still, get too many canaries choking and you're not long behind in the coal mine. Sometimes it's better to get out. Good luck.
KatZee Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Girl you are being played like a fiddle right now. This guy could honestly not give a crap less about you. He's hiding all his social media, and trust me it's not because he was hacked. It's because he's doing things that he doesn't want you to know about. You've met him ONCE. I get that you think you have this "connection" but do you really think this is a real relationship? One in which he hides all his activity, tells you he wants to sleep with other people? He barely keeps in contact with you, and goes MIA for full weeks. He makes fun of you Do you really think he's sitting home alone right now waiting to talk to you? No. He's out. Willing to bet he's either dating someone in his area, or he's just out trolling for hook up's. Bad news is all over this. I'd move on honestly. He's making you look like a fool. And I'm kind of confused why you want to make this guy want to marry you. What exactly is so alluring about this idiot?
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