Naive Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 Originally posted by Matilda My husband works with a girl that used to work in one of those photo developing places. She said not only do they look at the nude pictures they get, but they pass them around the store. Well now with digital cameras they can develop their own pictures and not risk it. Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestHubby Posted October 11, 2004 Share Posted October 11, 2004 Thanks for all the feedback (even the ones that called me nasty names). I agree that this is something I definitely need to hault, but am not convinced I should confess. I think that might cause more damage and would only serve to clear my conscience. Link to post Share on other sites
billybadass36 Posted October 11, 2004 Share Posted October 11, 2004 There's a common law invasion of privacy tort known as "public disclosure of embarrassing private facts" or "intrusion into one's seclusion". Not to mention the possibility that there are statutes in your locality that may criminalize or create a private cause of action for what you're doing. Now, I'm not trying to give you legal advice, but what you're doing is in all likelihood illegal depending on the jurisdiction you live in. Disseminating one's likeness without their consent, particularly when the likeness was intended for private use only, is actionable. Your wife should (a) file for divorce; (b) sue you for damages; and © call the local prosecutor. (Not necessarily in that order). Have her PM me if she wants a good attorney referral. Link to post Share on other sites
ShareHer Posted October 12, 2004 Share Posted October 12, 2004 Originally posted by MidwestHubby Truth is, I have absolutely nothing against her at think very highly of her in every way. I think we have a great relationship in every other aspect, with the exception of my little secret bahavior. I am anything but controlling. One person suggested to me that I'm still angry about her cheating on me 10 years ago before we were married. However, I don't think that is an issue any longer. There is just a group of us who enjoy seeing pictures of sexy wives and enjoy them much more than the professional porn you find everywhere. I wouldn't even consider stopping if I wasn't worried that I'd get caught. Is stopping good enough? Does their need to be a confession? Hi Midwest, I thought I'd let some of the others blow some hot air before I commented. Should you confess to her? HELL NO!!! Why should you and what would that accomplish? Anyone suggesting that you do only wants to see you crash and burn. I suppose everyone that said he should confess has told their spouses every little detail of anything they've done in the past that wasn't in her best interests? Yeah right. And the fellow that said wait until the pictures get back to the people in her church, give me a break! Churchgoing people don't look at that kind of stuff ... hahaha. I could imagine kindly old Mr Smith approaching her minister and saying, "Forgive me father for I have sinned. While surfing through 100's of thousands of pornographic photos, I came across (pun intended) one of Mrs Midwest. Would you like me to share it with the congregation?" HA! The odds of her picture popping up on the screen of someone that knows her is extremely slim. Even if it did, there's a good chance that person does a quick glance at her body and then moves to the next picture. And even then, if he did recognize her, he's not going to take it to her church for fear that he'll be chastized by his wife or friends for being on one of those sites himself. In closing .... sharing your wife's pictures with 1000's of people on the net probably isn't a good idea. Sharing with a few people probably won't hurt but telling her that you did is just plain dumb. Hey Midwest, wannna swap wife pics? Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted October 12, 2004 Share Posted October 12, 2004 It's all about respect shareher.....we've been through this before, but I just wanted to throw that in. Just because you lack that respect, doesn't mean everyone should see things the way you do. And I only say that because you just told midwest that it's plain dumb to tell her. Maybe he should hold his tongue, but he shouldn't be swapping these pics with anyone. Out of respect for his wife. Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestHubby Posted October 13, 2004 Share Posted October 13, 2004 Appreciate your view point ShareHer. Thanks. Appreciate a break from all the self-righteousness! Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted October 13, 2004 Share Posted October 13, 2004 I'm not self righteous.......just respectful.......big difference Link to post Share on other sites
ShareHer Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 Originally posted by Moose I'm not self righteous.......just respectful.......big difference Soooo Moosie ... are you saying that you don't have any naked pics of your lovely wife or that you just won't share them? Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 I'm saying I don't have any......and if I did, I wouldn't share them with anyone, including strangers on the internet. Link to post Share on other sites
ollydolly Posted January 14, 2005 Share Posted January 14, 2005 Midwest hubby I'll try and keep this really simple. YOU HAVE NO HONOR! A man who is a MAN protects his wife's honor. YOU have PROSTITUED her. Nothing I have ever read on Loveshack has made me this angry. Feel free to term my post "self-righteous" and let the words burn into your testicle sized brain, because righteousness is a QUALITY you lack. You are an embarassment to the word man. Go fall on your sword or something. Link to post Share on other sites
Mustard Bomb Posted January 14, 2005 Share Posted January 14, 2005 This is a really old thread. Link to post Share on other sites
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