Zammo25 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 You can dress it up anyway you like but you come across as rude and confrontational. A lot of people are hurting very badly and the " I only speak my mind " line does not wash with me. You can call me a loser for being on my own on a Saturday night, it does not really affect me but be careful what you write and say as you do not know the mental frame of mind people are in and your " tough taking " may have devastating consequences one day. 1
Leigh 87 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 Okay well, it is obviously not something really awful or terrible that you did. I mean, you have people that like you in real life, don't you? If you do not have many friends or people that think highly of you, then you have to think about and even possibly ask people who you come across. People like me would be honest (I would if someone asked me in my every day life). If you're otherwise an affable guy, then you must be doing something that is not blatantly off putting, such as checking out other girls every time your with your girlfriend, for example. Or calling them fat. Or lying or cheating to them. It could be a harder to pick thing.
Zammo25 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 But calling people fat is ok? Your hypocrisy is breathtaking. Really, it is. Several people before me told the OP to look within himself, but you've picked me as your whipping girl. Now, I have a thick skin, so I don't really care, but the only one rewriting history is you. Stunning hypocrisy. I have apologised the tone of my writing, but I will not apologise for my opinion. I believe PugMug is driving his exes away. He asked for an opinion, I gave it. Perhaps soliciting advice from strangers on the internet is not for him. He reacted to your confrontational and provocative posts towards him. Cause and effects, the butterfly effect, look it up.
Zammo25 Posted June 6, 2013 Posted June 6, 2013 You're defending fat slurs because you're both bitter. I've read your other posts. You don't have a high opinion of any woman. I guarantee, if I had a penis, you would not be condemning me the way you are. Hypocrisy and misogyny. You display both in spades. And if PugMug thinks that is a winning attitude, then his dating life is going to get worse before it gets better. And your opinion of Men is so refeshingly good isn't it ? Irony, hypocrisy.
Treasa Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 I just wanted to see why this was so long. I see a lot of helpful posts from metal_chick, who is called rude by people who can't handle hearing the truth, and I see a funny exchange between aisuru and BustedUpInside, and now I think I'm in love with all three. ... THAT is being off-topic. The other ladies have been trying to be helpful. 1
Treasa Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 Regarding the common denominator thing, is it not reasonable to look at some other factor if relationships keep failing? I know that the problem was me, for picking the guys I did, and for putting up with the **** I did, and for acting the way I did when I was unhappy. Sure, some of them were downright pricks, but it's on me for choosing them. Self-reflection is never a bad thing.
Zammo25 Posted June 7, 2013 Posted June 7, 2013 PugMug seems a decent bloke to me but he has been demonised by the Sisterhood. 1
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 Good god what a thread! All I can say is everyone on this forum is hurting for one reason or another. Most come here to seek advice, most give excellent advice. Some people listen, some don't I have to defend the so called "SISTERHOOD" here though. As these ladies are clear-cut, no bulls**t, give stright up advice, and always a kind word if you listen carefully enough. More importantly, they're giving a womans perspective! Something us guys can't always understand on our own. 1
Zammo25 Posted June 8, 2013 Posted June 8, 2013 Not men. I adore men. Wonderful creatures. But you're not a man. You're a child with an attitude problem. "Whaaaah, my girlfriend left me! All women are evil! Treat 'em mean, because women hate guys who are nice to them!" Yaaaaaaaaawn.... I hope you move onto better things and get the Man of your dreams. You have a fighting spirit I quite admire, so I reckon you will be just fine. You fight your corner well. Respect.
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