jcrew11 Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 Has anyone had experience dating and meeting hot blonde girls or hot girls of any hair color, that are fun to be with, but perhaps because they receive so much male attention, that their personalities are a little wild, crazy, and slightly unstable? It takes a lot patience and mental strength to handle someone who perhaps acts spoiled or selfish in relationships or just asking out on a date. These girls also tend to be very emotional about the little things as well, so you are always on your toes. 1
USMCHokie Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 I definitely still consider this one a lifelong dream... 1
sillyanswer Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 Has anyone had experience dating and meeting hot blonde girls or hot girls of any hair color, that are fun to be with, but perhaps because they receive so much male attention, that their personalities are a little wild, crazy, and slightly unstable? um. Yes. What's the question? 2
Author jcrew11 Posted May 23, 2013 Author Posted May 23, 2013 um. Yes. What's the question? Has anyone had any experience dating wild and crazy hot party girls? Do you have any advice for handling these situations and types of wild personalities?
GB25 Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 yes i dated a hot young blonde who LOVED to party..she is a lot younger than me..the spoiled, self centered and immature parts were also there...it will not work, i repeat it will not work..too many games, too much uncertainty and you will not be a priority in her life 1
sillyanswer Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 Has anyone had any experience dating wild and crazy hot party girls? Do you have any advice for handling these situations and types of wild personalities? Ahh. A little experience. Mostly: don't bother. But since wild and crazy hot party girls are hot, you'll try anyway. Find a line between calling them out on their wild and crazy behaviour and hanging on for the ride. It won't last too long either way. Might be fun. Don't forget that wild and crazy hot party girls are both wild and crazy.
CryForNoOne Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/385575-did-things-get-too-intense-second-date http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/393271-does-she-have-bpd
GB25 Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 The only advice I can give which I failed is..DONT GET ATTACHED. The hot, seductive, sexuality of a young party girl can be more addicting than heroin..trust me..All my friends told me " just bang her and dont get feelings" I tried sooo hard, but after a couple times I was hooked..the sex was out of this world..but she was way too young and immature and I was..well..an idiot for getting attached.. Relationships with these kinda girls will be short lived..enjoy the sex, ego boost and take it for what it is...I learned the hard way 2
Shepp Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 I couldn't have anymore experience of it! These are the type of girls that'll make you write threads about them! mine made me! But I'm attracted by that kinda girl so I cant pretend I don't love it! 1
StanMusial Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 Has anyone had experience dating and meeting hot blonde girls or hot girls of any hair color, that are fun to be with, but perhaps because they receive so much male attention, that their personalities are a little wild, crazy, and slightly unstable? It takes a lot patience and mental strength to handle someone who perhaps acts spoiled or selfish in relationships or just asking out on a date. These girls also tend to be very emotional about the little things as well, so you are always on your toes. Yes and it's fun when you're in your early 20's. Just don't take them too seriously. Just go with the flow and enjoy for a while, and make sure you are able to escape when you're ready to settle down.
FitChick Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 This is the same thing as some women being attracted to "bad boys." 2
hppr Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 Has anyone had any experience dating wild and crazy hot party girls? Do you have any advice for handling these situations and types of wild personalities? When I started dating again I ran into some chicks like that. You can't date them unless you are insane as well. Partying late at night, DUIs, drugs etc. They make for neat stories but if you want to play Captain Save-a-Ho it won't work. 1
Ninjainpajamas Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 This is more of a phase these type of women go through as they won't be young, hot and carefree their whole lives...or even very long for that matter....most men relegate these women to sex toys, potential threesome partners as they may do anything in the moment given the right timing and amount of alcohol. If you are a "nice guy" DO NOT date these women.....they will burn you, hard. If you're the white knight you won't be able to tame the wild girl, a part of them likes the instability and reckless/dramatic behavior of being w the wrong kind of men men or they may be the manipulator themselves...don't be fooled into thinking you can be her savior or be the guy that does everything right. Most guys get into the pu$$y then back out and send it down the party line, he who ends up having a relationship w this type opens a bag of tricks and issues or gets used until she moves onto a guy more her type...very likely the bad boy she supposedly doesn't want to be with and constantly complains about. 2
phineas Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 When I started dating again I ran into some chicks like that. You can't date them unless you are insane as well. Partying late at night, DUIs, drugs etc. They make for neat stories but if you want to play Captain Save-a-Ho it won't work. Yep. you gotta be a crazy club rat with your own harem of women to sleep with so you can care less if she falls of the face of the earth for a month on you. I know women who were like this back in my early 20's. They are still single at 40 and cray cray. They simply just do not know how to act when in a relationship with a man & they get dumped. 2
Treasa Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 I get the wild part, but what does the crazy part mean? What do they do that's crazy? I've never really been into this scene, so I'm not sure I understand it.
coltsfan1 Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 Yes I have. Advice: Don't date them. Best advice ever!!
hppr Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 I get the wild part, but what does the crazy part mean? What do they do that's crazy? I've never really been into this scene, so I'm not sure I understand it. Vandalize your house, threaten suicide/homicide, they always want to hit up the bars and party until 1-2AM every damn night, lots of drugs, randomly have sex with other guys behind your back, etc.
GB25 Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 Girls are like this are a blast if you know you're boundaries with them..i said it before and i will say it again...if you happen to snag a young, hot, party girl and you are a little bit older..just ride the wave..have sex and don't get involved emotionally...girls like this cannot and do not know how to have a real relationship and they can throw you to the curb and forget you're name the next day..they seem to move on pretty damn easily and you are left wondering what the F just happened.. get laid..party with them for a little..and move on..if you fall for the seductive behaviour and get wrapped up in the sweet talk, and the sex and try to date this girl you are in for a world of pain..real talk 2
amaysngrace Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 Has anyone had any experience dating wild and crazy hot party girls? Do you have any advice for handling these situations and types of wild personalities? Don't try to put her in a cage. She will resent the crap out of you.
RedRobin Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 Agreeing to or planning to use someone for sex would make the OP just as bad or worse than the women he complains about. He could afford to grow up himself and find a better crowd of people to hang out with. 1
hppr Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 Don't try to put her in a cage. She will resent the crap out of you. If you put her 'in a cage' (IE, try to have a monogamous relationship) she will hate you. If you have an open relationship she'll freak out about you cheating. If you ignore her, let her do her own thing, you're the unfeeling jerky boyfriend. Like the previous guy said women who are the 'party girl' type have no clue about relationships so just 'ride the wave' and don't be surprised if you end up doing a faceplant...
Babolat Posted May 24, 2013 Posted May 24, 2013 (edited) Read every thread I posted here on my experience with this.....it will not end well for you..I ended up breaking up with mine...and I do miss her like crazy. I trusted her 100% and she was into me 150%+...the partying, being irresponsible, reckless, immature..... got old, really old, after a while though. Edited May 24, 2013 by Babolat
phineas Posted May 25, 2013 Posted May 25, 2013 Vandalize your house, threaten suicide/homicide, they always want to hit up the bars and party until 1-2AM every damn night, lots of drugs, randomly have sex with other guys behind your back, etc. Pretty much. The one's who find God are even worse.
umirano Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 I've just stopped dating one. Well, it's a continuum rather than a binary thing I guess. I'm not sure how wild mine was/is compared to others. But I feel like I know the type. We were long distance. drugs - checkpartying - checkquestionable friends - checkwild - checkcrazy - checkemotional - checkout-of-this-world sex - checkplaying mind games - check Just to give you a feeling. When I broke up with her she told me immediately she ****ed a guy (who I met too) just to piss me off. I had fun. But now I have serious things to do, pass exams and *****, so bye-bye.
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