spameh Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 (edited) Please see my history with her in this post No surprise, she is married now and I am the OM. I cut contact with her for over a year, but she tried to get a hold of me several times. Last September, she FB-messaged me saying she missed me. Deep down I missed her, and so I texted her and we've been in casual contact ever since. I felt okay for friendship. That is until this March where we start flirting a lot via text, and finally we met up for Lunch a month ago. Big mistake! I told her my feelings start coming back, that I missed her, and I was upset I put myself in this situation, and that I need to walk away now. She seems to understand and admits she has feelings for me too. Yet she still contacts me a week later. I rarely initiate any contact by the way. We met up last Wednesday for Lunch but some thing seems odd. She seem uncomfortable or distant towards me. Why? We haven't talked since She was unwilling to open up when I prime into our current situation. Staying quiet and silent. I feel like she is hiding something from me but I don't know what it is. She said there is something that I don't know about, but that she can't tell me because the time is not right. During our first meeting, when I asked about who her husband was, she thought it was awkward and didn't want to talk about him. I was curious. She never mention about her husband to me. We met twice, and both times she didn't have her wedding ring on. She also asked me not to text her at night as she feels it is awkward. I just say good night to her occasionally. Can any one tell me what she is up to? I feel like I am being kept in the dark. I haven't been able to sleep for past week thinking about this - how I got into this, why did I do it, how do get out of this, how do I feel normal, hating this feeling, guilt, and many more feelings. And no we weren't intimate. I have no one to talk to about this as I feel this is not right. But I am trying to course correct by understanding my situation better Edited May 18, 2013 by spameh
Author spameh Posted May 18, 2013 Author Posted May 18, 2013 Can a mod move my post to OM forum please? Just realize my story is more suited for the viewers there.
2sunny Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 Dude... She's married! She intends to tay married and use you to feed her ego while staying married!!! Why don't YOU expect more from YOURSELF? Never settle. Get busy dating available gals!!! 2
Author spameh Posted May 18, 2013 Author Posted May 18, 2013 I understand sunny. I am trying to do the right thing now but it is hard since we have a history together and the feelings just come up. She always initiates most of the contact. I am just confused to what she wants...is she just bored?
HokeyReligions Posted May 18, 2013 Posted May 18, 2013 Keep reading what 2sunny said until it REALLY sinks in. And block her calls.
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