Jenn.Smith Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 (edited) I posted in infidelity my story as I sort it. I don't know if it is really relevant to that forum now. Anyways, has anyone suggestions on how to help your spouse when they are depressed. I'm trying to not focus on what I want, encourage him, not push sex, and do as much as I can to make his life easy. Obviously i've only just really started focusing on this. I wasn't a terrible wife before by any means but i know I have lots of areas to improve in. But I miss the contact. I miss when I would snuggle into him having an arm put around me or my hand being played with. I guess I just want a place I can let that out. I miss being touched. Edited April 25, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
BetheButterfly Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 I posted in infidelity my story as I sort it. I don't know if it is really relevant to that forum now. Anyways, has anyone suggestions on how to help your spouse when they are depressed. I'm trying to not focus on what I want, encourage him, not push sex, and do as much as I can to make his life easy. Obviously i've only just really started focusing on this. I wasn't a terrible wife before by any means but i know I have lots of areas to improve in. But I miss the contact. I miss when I would snuggle into him having an arm put around me or my hand being played with. I guess I just want a place I can let that out. I miss being touched. What does your husband like? Does he like sports? Does he like nature? Does he like fishing? Maybe it'd be good to suggest doing an activity like that with him and just working on your friendship with him first? I understand about touch. Touch is hugely important to me. I didn't read the thread you linked but it really helps to establish touch when y'all are enjoying a fun activity together!
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