Gave girlfriend one year anniversary gift and had to steal a kiss..is this normal?

[KatZee]

Go naturally and not be forced? Good Lord it's been 10 months... it really can't go any slower than this. In all actuality it's not moving AT ALL.

 

You both sound like teenagers...and what about the fact that she never had birth control until she met you, but you've only had ONE opportunity to have sex with her and haven't had a chance since...so who exactly is she taking the birth control for?

 

And you're going to wait until the end of this year to finally leave? So you want to remain like this for another 9 months?

 

There is nothing here. No emotional, mental or physical affection from her end. She avoids kissing you. The only thing that says is: I'm not attracted to you.

 

Why are you even buying her jewelry? She's not your girlfriend! Stop putting 200% effort into something that isn't there. Pull back 250%. Remove yourself from her world. You're being walked on, used, and taken advantage of. I'm sure she loves the perks of you being her little lap dog and doing everything and anything for her, but dude where are your balls? I'll tell you where they are. In her purse. Please pluck them out and put them back on.

[Driftking102]

So should I back off to see if the girl wants me more and just not care anymore?

[StarsOnFire]

So should I back off to see if the girl wants me more and just not care anymore?

 

Yes. Back off.

 

Go find a girl who wants to be your girlfriend.

[Driftking102]

Go naturally and not be forced? Good Lord it's been 10 months... it really can't go any slower than this. In all actuality it's not moving AT ALL.

 

You both sound like teenagers...and what about the fact that she never had birth control until she met you, but you've only had ONE opportunity to have sex with her and haven't had a chance since...so who exactly is she taking the birth control for?

 

And you're going to wait until the end of this year to finally leave? So you want to remain like this for another 9 months?

 

There is nothing here. No emotional, mental or physical affection from her end. She avoids kissing you. The only thing that says is: I'm not attracted to you.

 

Why are you even buying her jewelry? She's not your girlfriend! Stop putting 200% effort into something that isn't there. Pull back 250%. Remove yourself from her world. You're being walked on, used, and taken advantage of. I'm sure she loves the perks of you being her little lap dog and doing everything and anything for her, but dude where are your balls? I'll tell you where they are. In her purse. Please pluck them out and put them back on.

 

Assuming she's taking birth control to keep me around longer? We hangout pretty much everyday and we have the same work hours. We call each other a lot and text. So idk why she's taking birth control if we pretty much see each other 24/7. She's pretty much keeps saying we will have sex and wants to but never makes any moves. I'd make the moves but she's the one who wanted to in the first place so I was going to respect her choice and have been letting her make the moves.

[carhill]

Not normal. Time for a new girlfriend.

 

Reading this thread:

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/378895-girlfriend-wants-me-get-rid-my-toys-will-show-her-how-much-i-love-her

 

Told me everything I need to know. Good luck

[ChatroomHero]

Not normal. Time for a new girlfriend.

 

Reading this thread:

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/378895-girlfriend-wants-me-get-rid-my-toys-will-show-her-how-much-i-love-her

 

Told me everything I need to know. Good luck

 

Ah, I remember that thread. Driftking, you are letting yourself get owned like a child. Your post on getting rid of toys was all about you wanting to be more mature, yet on this thread you are laying out one of the most immature "relationships" I could imagine.

 

If you really want to mature I think you need to man-up and get out of this situation. From what you say you are just sport for her for some reason.

 

Being mature means having respect for yourself and being comfortable about being you, toys and all. If the situation you are saying is true, you need to move on and remove this 'woman' from your life. Have some pride.

[Lucky_One]

You have been asked several times, and you have not answered, Are the two of you in high school? And was this a one year anniversary gift from an actual first date, or a "I wish that we have dated and I have chased for 10 months" anniversary gift?

[iKING]

Wait, how is she your girlfriend again?

[neveragain34]

Man this girl is good! I have never heard of anyone so pu**y-whipped who isn't even getting the 'cookie'!