unluckyperson Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 so i've broke up with my ex for 4 days from now. but it seems like im the only one who is sad and think about her, what about her ? do she feel the same too ? it just seems like she is so happy with her friends, we have been together for 2 years, why do she feel sad or think about me ? her twitter tweet is like so nothing, its like she dont feel hurt at all, she do but for just one or 2 day and now she is not feeling sad at all, why ? dose this means she will nvr come back to me again ?
Mack05 Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Mate come on. Read all the replies to your previous threads...Its over. Let her go and stop obsessing.. Did you matter? Read this.. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/374682-did-you-really-matter-if#post4623057
TaraMaiden Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Look, I hate to give it to you straight, but I have to, and this is going to hurt. She dumped you. She dumped you because you behaved in an immature, stupid and irresponsible way. you lied to her repeatedly. Whatever your motive, it was a dumb ting to do. You come across as needy, immature and I think you have very low self-esteem. She won't come back, because you're not portraying yourself in a very good light at all. In her eyes, you're clingy, and she doesn't like the fact that you're getting to her through friends. You're irritating her now - big time. You're an annoying pest and you need to back off, otherwise she will even end up hating you, talking about you, broadcasting what she sees as your idiocy on FB, twitter and generally everywhere.... I hate to be the broken record, but you desperately need to go complete No Contact - and for how to do that, read the link in my signature. Several times. In fact, copy, paste, print, and paper your entire room with it, and hang a copy in the John (worthwhile reading instead of gazing at the wall, or reading all the labels on the bottles) and carry a copy with you, everywhere you go. Memorise it, and take it in, until its words of wisdom keep floating before your very eyes.... 2
destroyed4sho Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 so i've broke up with my ex for 4 days from now. but it seems like im the only one who is sad and think about her, what about her ? do she feel the same too ? it just seems like she is so happy with her friends, we have been together for 2 years, why do she feel sad or think about me ? her twitter tweet is like so nothing, its like she dont feel hurt at all, she do but for just one or 2 day and now she is not feeling sad at all, why ? dose this means she will nvr come back to me again ? NO she is not coming back. Sorry you feel down and depressed. Most of do after break up. The reason she doesnt feel amything now is because she checked out of the relationship a long time ago and so she is already miles ahead of you and over it. Shr doesnt feel the break up now. You.just got.dumped so you have a huge.mountain to climb before you get over it...if you want to speed along go no contact. 1
flitzanu Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 so i've broke up with my ex for 4 days from now. but it seems like im the only one who is sad and think about her, what about her ? do she feel the same too ? it just seems like she is so happy with her friends, we have been together for 2 years, why do she feel sad or think about me ? her twitter tweet is like so nothing, its like she dont feel hurt at all, she do but for just one or 2 day and now she is not feeling sad at all, why ? dose this means she will nvr come back to me again ? she dumped YOU, why does she need to be sad? she made the decision to have you out of her life. to her, that was a positive thing, and something she wanted to happen. to you, this is a negative thing, and something you did not want to happen. you're sad, she's ambivalent. 1
KatZee Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 She appears to be OK and there's nothing on Twitter and she's out with her friends because she IS OK. Girls very rarely act impulsively when they break up with their partner. We think about it, we weigh pro's and con's and by the time we pull the plug, it's because we're tired of whatever it is you're doing, we've lost the feeling for you and we'd rather be alone than with you. What she's feeling right now is relief. 3
destroyed4sho Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 She appears to be OK and there's nothing on Twitter and she's out with her friends because she IS OK. Girls very rarely act impulsively when they break up with their partner. We think about it, we weigh pro's and con's and by the time we pull the plug, it's because we're tired of whatever it is you're doing, we've lost the feeling for you and we'd rather be alone than with you. What she's feeling right now is relief. I guess that is what my ex is feeling at this point. I know she is and its so hard to swallow. I am not having a good day today...feel strong somedays and then I get meltdowns like right now. I keep thinking "how the hell can this girl do this to me?"...then I start analyzing specific things she said and tying it to the fact that she has been wanting to dump me for over a year. I feel literally sick sometimes. I think I'm reverting back to shock stage.......WTF???
destroyed4sho Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 She appears to be OK and there's nothing on Twitter and she's out with her friends because she IS OK. Girls very rarely act impulsively when they break up with their partner. We think about it, we weigh pro's and con's and by the time we pull the plug, it's because we're tired of whatever it is you're doing, we've lost the feeling for you and we'd rather be alone than with you. What she's feeling right now is relief. aghhhh...:(:(
TaraMaiden Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 I will take that over her getting banged by a bell' ragazzo cazzo di merda vita di merda sto impazzendo Su Coraggio, bello. Vedrai che passerà !
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