ohno_itsjames Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 (edited) I initially joined this site due to some hiccups with a girl I dated twice, I know It's quite ridiculous how much it effected me and how it effected after she stopped talking to me, either way, she's gone now for whatever reason, I'll never know. (See http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/366941-she-fell-planet-during-conversation-seemed-going-well-too if you want to read up on it) Back to my question though, how do you get back into dating? Consider this... -She approached me, initiated the contact, asked for my number, ask me to go out with her, initiated intimate things (this wasn't due to me being scared, she genuinely just made the moves first) -She wasn't the first girl I've "dated" but she certainly was the closest thing I had to a "relationship" and it was certainly one of the most "Intense" and "Intimate" things I've ever done with some one, it was also the first time I could feel someone's "interest" in me. I'm genuinely a lot more confident about myself now as a result of the previous experience, and I feel a lot more attractive than I did this time last year (I thought I was pretty ugly) How do I put myself out there though? I'm pretty certain It'll take a while to find what I "had" for a couple of weeks, but nonetheless, life seems strange now that I've gone back to having no intimate relationships, kissing a random girl in a nightclub isn't really as fun as it used to be I don't think. I consider myself quite a romantic guy, I take interest in hearing about her, I'm passionate/intimate, I enjoy the little things as much as the big things, I'm not selfish, I'm fairly intelligent, Always up for something new, I'm definitely not a fussy eater, I love my food! I look after myself, don't dress like a slob (is musical taste really an issue I might not look like it, but I listen to Death Metal/Brutal Death Metal I however don't bring it up unless asked, the previous girl was into Indie and wanted to listen to my music! I really wasn't sure what to do) Edit: I'm having second thoughts on the title, it seems a little crude, I can't change it now though it seems... Edited February 5, 2013 by ohno_itsjames
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