Cutiepie1976 Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Interesting! I assumed he was hung...you know, well-endowed...like a horse, perhaps. That was the sense given from previous descriptions and the ummm, equipment he showed you during your video sessions. What did you mean by well-endowed? Something else? I never said he was well endowed. Hahah he just has more than I do at the present moment. I can still pay my own bills and live in a very nice condo. My idea of broke is clearly different from you. Yes we have been talking everyday for 4-6 hours. We have a lot of serious discussions as well as getting to know each other. We probably know each other better than most people dating for 6 months since we are taking the time to discuss so much. We'll see, doesn't mean I'm marrying the guy. This is just a topic that we considered since at some point one of us is going to have to move. You seem more caught up in my check book than answering the simple question don't worry about me, I will be making far more than he does. Strange how I got the idea that you were attracted to his big dong but were too broke to fly to see it...errr, him. Perhaps you can help with this second thread? We obviously have different ideas about your claim that you are too broke to travel. I took that literally. Maybe you meant something else? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/368554-first-time-long-distance-date Why not go on an actual date with Mr. Dong before you make plans to move, discuss how to split costs, and extrapolate earning power out five years when married to him? I'm sure you would be incredibly dismayed to to roll through this forum and accidentally start an all-out brawl about who pays among the generous, helpful, wonderful, well-meaning, highly opinionated posters here... Obviously, it's a personal decision that each couple discusses and makes for themselves. Different couples reach very different decisions together. It's not a decision made with a bunch of internet strangers and then handed down unilaterally to Mr. Hung Future Fiancé. So! Tell us about your plans for date#1 when he flies cross-country to see you. Planning to treat him since he will have spent hundreds of dollars coming to see you?
2sure Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Definitely date him a few times and then it would be fair to explain your future hopes and expectations. It's good to have priorities and to find out if your possible partners are the same. But go on a few dates first, or you will sound like a nut job. 1
Author Maneater Posted February 4, 2013 Author Posted February 4, 2013 (edited) Interesting! I assumed he was hung...you know, well-endowed...like a horse, perhaps. That was the sense given from previous descriptions and the ummm, equipment he showed you during your video sessions. What did you mean by well-endowed? Something else? Strange how I got the idea that you were attracted to his big dong but were too broke to fly to see it...errr, him. Perhaps you can help with this second thread? We obviously have different ideas about your claim that you are too broke to travel. I took that literally. Maybe you meant something else? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/368554-first-time-long-distance-date Why not go on an actual date with Mr. Dong before you make plans to move, discuss how to split costs, and extrapolate earning power out five years when married to him? I'm sure you would be incredibly dismayed to to roll through this forum and accidentally start an all-out brawl about who pays among the generous, helpful, wonderful, well-meaning, highly opinionated posters here... Obviously, it's a personal decision that each couple discusses and makes for themselves. Different couples reach very different decisions together. It's not a decision made with a bunch of internet strangers and then handed down unilaterally to Mr. Hung Future Fiancé. So! Tell us about your plans for date#1 when he flies cross-country to see you. Planning to treat him since he will have spent hundreds of dollars coming to see you? Do you like to embarrass yourself further??? Obviously he's the one who is interested in moving where I am. I did NOT formulate this idea on my own, which is what YOU would like to think. I'm sorry you never experienced a man that converses with you on all levels. Neither of us is walking down the aisle anytime soon. We agreed we are mutually attracted to each other of what we see and have personalities that have meshed together so far. At some point ONE of us is going to have to move for each other. Better to have discussed it now, then fall in love with other THEN find out neither of us can move because of our jobs! Sounds smart to me! Sorry to disappoint you! You're the same person who leaves your underwear at mens places. Interesting character you are! Edited February 4, 2013 by Maneater
Cutiepie1976 Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Do you like to embarrass yourself further??? Obviously he's the one who is interested in moving where I am. I did NOT formulate this idea on my own, which is what YOU would like to think. I'm sorry you never experienced a man that converses with you on all levels. Neither of us is walking down the aisle anytime soon. We agreed we are mutually attracted to each other of what we see and have personalities that have meshed together so far. At some point ONE of us is going to have to move for each other. Better to have discussed it now, then fall in love with other THEN find out neither of us can move because of our jobs! Sounds smart to me! Sorry to disappoint you! You're the same person who leaves your underwear at mens places. Interesting character you are! Read that post carefully, and you'll notice that my underwear leaves with me. It's never at a serious boyfriend's house. "Pack it in, pack it out." You on the other hand, hide your personal stuff in his bathroom. I also don't encounter men who are slimy enough to discuss penile size and whip out their schlong before we've ever met. That's a level of disrespect that I just don't attract in partners. They bring a lot more to the table than a dong.
outsidethebox Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 entertaining thread, I'll give you that. 1
Author Maneater Posted February 4, 2013 Author Posted February 4, 2013 entertaining thread, I'll give you that. hahah I did label it...controversial.
Author Maneater Posted February 4, 2013 Author Posted February 4, 2013 Read that post carefully, and you'll notice that my underwear leaves with me. It's never at a serious boyfriend's house. "Pack it in, pack it out." You on the other hand, hide your personal stuff in his bathroom. I also don't encounter men who are slimy enough to discuss penile size and whip out their schlong before we've ever met. That's a level of disrespect that I just don't attract in partners. They bring a lot more to the table than a dong. What are you even talking about?? I do not hide personal stuff in someone bathroom. I think you need a head check. Also, penis size was discussed in only .01% of our 5 hour talks everyday. Sorry it did not come up as crass as you'd like to think it does. Sounds like you're a bitter person who doesn't attract men of class yourself. Half your posts are projections I feel sorry for you lol
apple OR orange Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 everything 50/50, if anyone wants to change this, they are a gold digger.
in_absentia Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 The root of the thread is asking everyone is it acceptable that 2 people living together split the rent?? What about when you're married? This is just ridiculous; it's unacceptable NOT to split rent when you live together. I can understand people making it a percentage thing (if I earn 20% more I contribute 20% more rent than a partner, and would be okay with it happening the other way around) if money is truly tight, but it doesn't sound like it is. You do sound like an absolute gold digger and I find it hard to believe you're not just trolling everyone. I feel awkward if a date buys me dinner/loads of drinks etc. because I work really, really hard (read: full time MA training to be a social worker plus two jobs plus voluntary work) to support myself and don't like to feel as though I'm taking advantage of anybody else. This guy will run a mile if you ever do actually meet and he gets wind of what you're like.
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