charlietheginger Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Behind every womans smiling eyes Is a razor blade knife ready to Cut a man emotionally mentality and financially To pieces.... 2
ThaWholigan Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 The catch is... a lot of the women who are into true "equality" are not women you would be very attracted to. You'd be surprised 1
PJKino Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I think "hate" is an overreaction especially on here..Some of us come here to vent and may say things while feelings are still raw that might come off strong but it doesnt mean that person hates all women Some of us have never been able to attract women so were hurt angry and whatever other word you want to use when we realize women arent attracted to us 1
Author edgygirl Posted December 24, 2012 Author Posted December 24, 2012 Oh wow. Okay, sorry to hear. Fair enough. I agree both should be partners. And I understand that if one had a mother who wasn't interested in being a real partner, her son would obviously grow up thinking most women are like that or so. Sorry I don't intend to analyze you here... just trying to see where guys might come from to get why there's prejudice sometimes. I mean, I guess before judging how people act in life we should keep in mind that people have diverse types of upbringing and try to be compassionate about them. The other day I mentioned here the need to be compassionate etc as opposed to finding out how to trick people to your own advantage, and one of the guys said it's bs as it doesn't get them women. But I mean, if everyone understood that only because some people they know are like that, it doesn't mean everyone is like that, right? I think it's wrong to assume "all men are pigs" or "all women are gold diggers"and such. I try to have faith in humanity, not be judgmental and see the best in people until they prove otherwise. It would be great if everyone did that, I think we'd all be happier. Hey thanks for sharing. It suddenly makes sense why some guys might have fears about women in general as they don't want to be tricked by the ones who are not real partners in life. But keep in mind - not all women are like that!!! 180 degrees apart. In 16 years, I didn't see my mother do 16 minutes of work. I once asked her why she didn't get a job since I was in school all day. She said why get married if you have to work? She was lazy, and I would've liked to have seen less of her and more of my father, who did all the work. Who says the mother at home and the man working is the ideal? I like both people being partners, but men rarely are allowed to be an equal in his own home.
Esoteric Elf Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 (edited) Most of the listed reasons seem quite irrelevant and/or unrelated excluding reasons 5 (constant ridicule from girls at a young age), 6 (sexually abused as child) and 10 (he is isolated). If a person is, say, constantly bullied or dismissed by a particular group he/she wishes to emulate, will not feelings of resentment arise? An example would be, in the early 1900's when, due to the influx in immigration, Irish men made up quite a proportion of the police force in El Barrio, New York. Them and their characteristic accent soon became a sort of psychological hate for the innocent people in El Barrio against whom made constant night raids/patrols to find mainly Puerto Rican (and others of hispanic heritage) cocaine/crack dealers. Racism grew rampent. Time and ill feelings breed ill feelings over time. Negative experiences with women are the root of all mysogyny. Mysogyny does not happen in a vacuum. Edited December 24, 2012 by Esoteric Elf
Woggle Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 The catch is... a lot of the women who are into true "equality" are not women you would be very attracted to. I found one who is very attractive. Also Megan Fox can skate by on no talent but so can boy bands like One Direction. Do you think people actually like them for their great talent?
Nightsky Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 There are plenty of women who truly are interested in an equal partnership. Not all women are like Crude's mother. I am aware there are some who simply view men as a walking wallet but men should do their best to stay away from those types. They are not hard to spot so avoid them. Not all women think like that. No one ever said all women think like that. The reality you fail to recognize is this article isn't about men who hate women, it's about the men women hate... specifically feminists hate. The good women want to be women, and men to be men. They don't view masculinity as some kind of disgusting evil while at the same time lusting after it like the deranged feminist crazies. These women hate most the men who take their advice it's laughable how miserable they are. This article is pure feministic poop. Wake up!
Nightsky Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 So being a misogynist means your going to become a crazed mass murder? While it's pretty obvious that guys like Cho, Sodini, Holmes were very sexually frustrated ( in Holmes and Cho's case virgins) they also had lots of other problems that went along with them not getting any putang.... Not fair to compare the average good natured misogynist with crazed murders like Sodini and Cho....Killing random innocents is wrong whether your getting laid or not. I'm pretty sure the word Misogynist is supposed to conjure and compare you to exactly the worse of the worst. Just like when you call some one racist for not believing in affirmative action its supposed to compare you to a mass murder like Hitler. Ah PC thought gotta love or you could hurt some ones feeling and get fire from your job and or sued, and or put in jail for HATE SPEECH... not protected by free speech as that is only for saying things people want to hear.
Pyro Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 No where did I say there are NO attractive women who are truly into fairness and equality. I said most of the women you find who are that fair-minded are not all that attractive. Attractive to you? Attractive to everyone? Since when is attractiveness universal to everyone?
Els Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I do feel the people are too quick to call come people "woman haters" though. All you have to do is make one criticism or one observation that is not politically correct, or admit to only wanting sex and suddenly you "hate women". What if you made 3328477892478 of them?
Radu Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 (edited) crude - do you really believe no women would give her life for others or for her man? And that women usually decide by themselves whether she should work or not without talking to their partners? And that women think men are disposable? For kids yes, for husband ... less likely. For one, the husband gets neglected after kids come in the couple. Some do the things that you mention. It's not the fact that they do these things, it's the fact that society does now view them in a bad light for doing these things that hurts. Didn't your mother do everything she could for you? Don't we give support, love, do the biggest sacrifices for men and our families including working full time jobs, taking care of the house, carrying your (our) child, be a mom 24/7, and still have to look beautiful and so on? My mom is the example of the kind of woman i want in my life. Was a researcher in a chemichal lab, better educated than my dad, amazing organizer, loved her work ... still holds patents. She shared house duties with my dad, she was shocked when men made a pass on her, and was happy when my dad in turn was disgusted that some women made passes on him. She went to college again in her 50's, and became a damn good lawyer. She didn't manage to do everything, but she did manage to do a lot. She does not understand the women of today, in fact she has very bad opinions about many of them. As a 30yr old man i'm faced with several options : - stay single forever - get married but only expose myself in a limited way, and be on the lookout ... prenup is a must Or else i'll suffer if she leaves with the kids and such. - adopt and be a single parent, forego the ideea of finding my perfect someone but still get sex whenever i want [it's not hard to get sex regularly] The latter option is becoming more and more attractive with each passing day. PS: A couple of days ago, there was a thread with 26 things that gave you hope in 2012. One story was about a young couple. He got sent to war [from the US], and came back home without arms and legs. His gf [beautifull too], stayed by his side during recovery, helped him learn to walk again, married him. That is the kind of woman you want to protect from the bullets of a madman in Atlanta; Britney Spears wannabe's can just protect themselves. Edited December 24, 2012 by Radu
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