Life'sGood Posted February 22, 2013 Share Posted February 22, 2013 Met how: In person, in my country. Met when: April 2012 Official since: September 2012 Exclusive since: September 2012 Apart since: have always been apart Distance: As of this moment, 2000+ miles, or was it kilometres? Time difference: 2 hours First Visit: September 2012 Last visit: December 2012 Next Visit: April 2013 Visits total: 2 Visits M->F: - Visits F->M: - Common trips: 2 Total time spent locally: a week Approximate travel costs per trip: $1500 Age F: 25 Age M: 34 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: North Borneo Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: Guam (for now) Cultural Background F: Chinese, local ethnic. Cultural Background M: Western Mother tongue F: Malay Mother tongue M: English Main language used for communication: English (he's learning my language now!) RS status: Ongoing Number of breaks / break ups: 0 Total break time: - Civil status: In a relationship ETA Going local: <2 years Poster's perceived probability of RS being intact in 0.5 | 1 | 2 | 5 years: 1 | 0.9 | 0.9 | 0.9 (1 being guaranteed, 0 being impossible) Link to post Share on other sites
samanthaj08 Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 Met how: Online, Facebook Met when: March 2012 Official since: October 2012 Exclusive since: October 2012 Apart since: always Distance: 10k miles Time difference: 12.5 hours First Visit: November 2012 Visits total: 1 Visits M->F: 0 (will be 1 in may) Visits F->M: 1 Common trips: 0 Total time spent locally: 2 weeks Approximate travel costs per trip: $2000ish Age F: 23 Age M: 22 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: Chicago Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: Mumbai Cultural Background F: American Cultural Background M: Indian Mother tongue F: English Mother tongue M: Hindi Main language used for communication: English RS status: Ongoing Number of breaks / break ups: 0 Total break time: - Civil status: _ Engaged | _ Married ETA Going local: 2 years Poster's perceived probability of RS being intact in 0.5 | 1 | 2 | 5 years: we plan to be together forever *fingers crossed* Link to post Share on other sites
onlyjs Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 Met how: At Work Met when: Dec. 2003 Official since: First time, March 2004 - Second time - Jan. 2011 Exclusive since: Jan. 2013 Apart since: Jan. 2011 Distance: 307 miles Time difference: NONE (for now!) First Visit: April 2011 Visits total: 5 Visits M->F: 1 Visits F->M: 4 Common trips: 0 Total time spent locally: 1 week Approximate travel costs per trip: US 500 Age F: 28 again :-) Age M: 29 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: North America - USA - North Carolina Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: North America - USA- GA Cultural Background F: Black, from New Jersey, Liberal Cultural Background M: Black, from Virginia, Liberal Mother tongue F: English Mother tongue M: English Main language used for communication: English RS status: Ongoing (If your RS ended, which year and month?) Number of breaks / break ups: 0 Total break time: too many months to count (He's in the Army, this is the closest we have been in awhile!) Civil status: both divorced ETA Going local: 8 months Poster's perceived probability of RS being intact in 0.5 | 1 | 2 | 5 years: 1 - 1- 1- 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author umirano Posted April 26, 2013 Author Share Posted April 26, 2013 Update: Met how: Online Met when: June 2011 Official since: September 2012 Exclusive since: September 2012 Apart since: June 2011 Distance: 2750 km Time difference: 1 hour First Visit: September 2012 Visits total: 5 Visits M->F: 4 Visits F->M: 1 Common trips: 0 Total time spent locally: 7 weeks Approximate travel costs per trip: EUR 800 Age F: 20 Age M: 27 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: Near East | - | - | - Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: Europe | - | - | - Cultural Background F: Western, liberal Cultural Background M: Western, liberal Mother tongue F: - Mother tongue M: German Main language used for communication: English RS status: Ongoing Number of breaks / break ups: 0 Total break time: - Civil status: _ Engaged | _ Married ETA Going local: >2 years Poster's perceived probability of RS being intact in 0.5 | 1 | 2 | 5 years: 0.5 | 0.5 | 0.4 | 0.3 Link to post Share on other sites
Vivanna Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Met how: online Met when: november 2012 Official since: december 2012 Exclusive since: december 2012 Apart since: november 2012 Distance: 25 374km Time difference: 14 hours First Visit: none yet Visits M->F: 0 Visits F->M: 0 Common trips: 0 Approximate travel costs per trip: $2200CAD Age F: 15 Age M: 17 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 0 State (F): Ontario (canada) Country (M): Australia Cultural Background F: canadian, irsh, scottish Cultural Background M: russian, australian, new zealand Mother tongue F: English Mother tongue M: English Main language used for communication: English RS status: Ongoing number of break ups: 0 ETA Going local: 9 months Poster's perceived probability of RS being intact in 0.5 | 1 | 2 | 5 years: 0.9 | 0.8 | 0.9 | 0 (1 being guaranteed, 0 being impossible) Link to post Share on other sites
blugirl Posted April 28, 2013 Share Posted April 28, 2013 Met how: Online Met when: September 2009 Official since: not yet Exclusive since: October 2010 Apart since: always Distance: 9402 km Time difference: 6 hrs (March~October)/ 7hrs (October~March) First Visit: - Visits total: 0 Visits M->F: 0 Visits F->M: 0 Common trips: 0 Total time spent locally: - Approximate travel costs per trip: 0 Age F: 25 Age M: 33 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: Europe | Poland | - | - Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: SE Asia | Philippines | - | - Cultural Background F: Western, conservative Cultural Background M: Asian, conservative Mother tongue F: Polish Mother tongue M: Tagalog/Chinese Mandarin/Hokkien Main language used for communication: English RS status: Ongoing Number of breaks / break ups: 0 Total break time: - Civil status: in a rlship ETA Going local: < 2 years Poster's perceived probability of RS being intact in 0.5 | 1 | 2 | 5 years: 1 | 0.99 | 0.99 | 0.99 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SaltwaterHeart Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Met how: Locally at university Met when: May 2012 Official since: May/June 2012 Exclusive since: May/June 2012 Apart since: September 2012 Distance: 11.355 km/7056 miles Time difference: 5 hours First Visit: Christmas 2012 Visits total: 2 Visits M->F: 1 Visits F->M: 1 Common trips: 1 Total time spent locally: altogether about 5 months Approximate travel costs per trip: EUR 1200 Age F: 25 Age M: 22 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: Latin America, for the time being Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: Europe Cultural Background F: Western, liberal Cultural Background M: Western, liberal Mother tongue F: German/English Mother tongue M: German Main language used for communication: German RS status: Ongoing Number of breaks / break ups: 0 Total break time: - Civil status: Single ETA Going local: Europe <3 months, same country ~15 months, same city <2 years Poster's perceived probability of RS being intact in 0.5 | 1 | 2 | 5 years: 0.7 | 0.6 | 0.6 | 0.6 (1 being guaranteed, 0 being impossible) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sparklycupcake Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 Met how: Through work Met when: June 2011 Official since: January 2013 Exclusive since: Not exclusive Apart since: April 2013 Distance: 2287.37 km Time difference: 2 hours First Visit: May 2013 Visits total: 1 Visits M->F: 1 Visits F->M: 0 Common trips: 0 Total time spent locally: 1 week Approximate travel costs per trip: AUD$1200 Age F: 23 Age M: 28 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: New Zealand | Auckland Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: Australia | Brisbane Cultural Background F: Western, liberal Cultural Background M: Western, liberal Mother tongue F: English Mother tongue M: English Main language used for communication: English RS status: Ongoing Number of breaks / break ups: 0 Total break time: - Civil status: single ETA Going local: Unknown Poster's perceived probability of RS being intact in 0.5 | 1 | 2 | 5 years: 0.8 | 0.6 | 0.3 | 0.2 (1 being guaranteed, 0 being impossible) Link to post Share on other sites
daletom Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 Oh, how I love to throw in an observation that messes up somebody's data! Met how: Postal address passed (with permission) by mutual friend. Met when: April 1973 Official since: Ummm, what is "official"? Exclusive since: September 1973 Apart since: April 1973 - August 1974 Distance: Initially ~1100 km (~ 700 mi); Sept 1973 - Aug 1974: ~ 300 km (~ 200 mi) Time difference: same First Visit: August 1973 Visits total: Too many to count Visits M->F: Dozens Visits F->M: ~ 10 Common trips: ~ 5 Total time spent locally: Est 10 weeks, Aug 1973 - Aug 1974 Approximate travel costs per trip: $US 20 - 200 Age F: 22 (At start) Age M: 22 (At start) Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 3 (Now adult) Apr 1973 - Sept 1973: Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: N Amer | US | NY | - Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: N Amer | US | MI | - Sept 1973 - Aug 1974: Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: N Amer | US | MI | - Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: N Amer | US | IN | - Cultural Background F: U.S. Midwest, conservative Cultural Background M: U.S. Midwest, conservative Mother tongue F: English Mother tongue M: English Main language used for communication: English RS status: Ongoing (If your RS ended, which year and month?) Number of breaks / break ups: 0 Total break time: - Civil status: VERY Married (Aug 1974) ETA Going local: Aug 1974 - Present Poster's perceived probability of RS being intact in 0.5 | 1 | 2 | 5 years: 0.9999 | 0.999 | 0.995 | 0.98 (Est based on mortality) (1 being guaranteed, 0 being impossible) 2 Link to post Share on other sites
greytide Posted May 25, 2013 Share Posted May 25, 2013 Met how: Online Met when: ~ June 2010 Official since: September 2010 Exclusive since: September 2010 Apart since: we've always lived in different locations Distance: 850 miles Time difference: 1 hour First Visit: September 2010 Visits total: 23 Last visit: 23 - 28 May 2013 Visits M->F: 8 Visits F->M: 14 Common trips: 1 Total time spent locally: so far we've spent 154 days in person (15.32%) Approximate travel costs per trip: EUR 170 (plane ticket + public transport) Age F: 30 Age M: 31 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: Central Europe Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: United Kingdom Cultural Background F: White, agnostic, liberal Cultural Background M: Black, agnostic, liberal Mother tongue F: One of the Slavic languages Mother tongue M: English Main language used for communication: English RS status: Ongoing Number of breaks / break ups: 0 Total break time: - Civil status: in a relationship ETA Going local: within the next 2 years Poster's perceived probability of RS being intact in 0.5 | 1 | 2 | 5 years: 1 | 0.8 | 0.7 | 0.5 (1 being guaranteed, 0 being impossible) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author umirano Posted May 25, 2013 Author Share Posted May 25, 2013 Met how: Online Met when: July 2011 Official since: September 2012 Exclusive since: September 2012 Apart since: we've always lived in different locations Distance: 2750 km Time difference: 1 hour First Visit: September 2012 Visits total: 5 Last visit: April 2013 Visits M->F: 4 Visits F->M: 1 Common trips: 1 Total time spent locally: 7 weeks Approximate travel costs per trip: ~800 EUR Age F: 20 Age M: 27 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: Middle East Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: Europe Cultural Background F: White, western, agnostic, liberal Cultural Background M: White, western agnostic, liberal Mother tongue F: Mother tongue M: German Main language used for communication: English RS status: No RS Number of breaks / break ups: 1 Total break time: 0 Civil status: celibate Link to post Share on other sites
Author umirano Posted July 14, 2014 Author Share Posted July 14, 2014 Bump - for those who like to post (I've been notified by other posters that it wasn't possible to post here anymore) Link to post Share on other sites
thysecret Posted July 16, 2014 Share Posted July 16, 2014 Met how: Online Met when: May 2014 Official since: Not yet Exclusive since: June 2014 Apart since: Never met Distance: 14252km/8856 mile Time difference: 14 Hours First Visit: 2015 Visits total: 0 Visits M->F: 0 Visits F->M: 0 Common trips: 0 Total time spent locally: - Approximate travel costs per trip: $1,500 & above Age F: 22 Age M: 24 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: Asia Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: America Cultural Background F: Asian Cultural Background M: Western Mother tongue F: Chinese Mandarin/Hokkien/few other asian languages Mother tongue M: English Main language used for communication: English RS status: Ongoing Number of breaks / break ups: 0 Total break time: - Civil status: In a relationship ETA Going local: Hopefully 1-2 years Poster's perceived probability of RS being intact in 0.5 | 1 | 2 | 5 years: 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TAV Posted July 16, 2014 Share Posted July 16, 2014 Met how: Online Met when: Fall 2011 Official since: August 2012 Exclusive since: August 2012 Apart since: We never were in the same country Distance: 600 km with a sea separating us Time difference: 1 hour First Visit: August 2012 Visits total: 9 Visits M->F: 4 Visits F->M: 5 Common trips: 0 Total time spent locally: 1 week Approximate travel costs per trip: EUR 250 Age F: 44 Age M: 46 Number of kids F from other RS:2 Number of kids M from other RS: 3 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: The Netherlands | - | - | - Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: UK | - | - | - Cultural Background F: Western, liberal Cultural Background M: Western, liberal Mother tongue F: Dutch Mother tongue M: English Main language used for communication: English RS status: Ongoing (If your RS ended, which year and month?) Number of breaks / break ups: 2 Total break time: Never more than a day Civil status: _ planning to get married but have to know when we will be together first 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Rinner Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 Met how: Online Met when: 2008 Official since: January 2011 Exclusive since: January 2011 Apart since: 2008 Distance: 2,647 Time difference: 1 hour First Visit: May 2012 Visits total: 5 Visits M->F: 2 Visits F->M: 3 Common trips: 0 Total time spent locally: 9 weeks Approximate travel costs per trip: (round trip flight only) CAN $700 Age F: 21 Age M: 23 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 0 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: North America - Canada - Alberta Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: North America - USA - California Cultural Background F: Cultural Background M: Mother tongue F: English Mother tongue M: English Main language used for communication: English RS status: Ongoing Number of breaks / break ups: 0 Total break time: n/a Civil status: _ Engaged | _ Married| N/a ETA Going local: ???????????? (Not too far in the future hopefully but no solid or liquid plans yet) Poster's perceived probability of RS being intact in 0.5 | 1 | 2 | 5 years: 1 | 0.99 | ? | ? (1 being guaranteed, 0 being impossible) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author umirano Posted November 2, 2016 Author Share Posted November 2, 2016 bump, and hello everyone Link to post Share on other sites
gaveup Posted November 12, 2016 Share Posted November 12, 2016 Ok, I'll update mine too. Met how: Online Met when: January 2013 Official since: December 2013 Exclusive since: December 2013 Apart since: November 2015 :'( Distance: 2,5 hr flight Time difference: 1hr First Visit: December 2015 Visits total: 11 Visits M->F: 9 Visits F->M: 2 Common trips: 2 Total time spent locally: ?? Approximate travel costs per trip: round trip flight from £100 to £300 Age F: 27 Age M: 30 Number of kids F from other RS: 0 Number of kids M from other RS: 1 Number of kids from this RS: 0 Continent | Country | Province/State | City F: Estern Europe - Poland - Cracow/Warsaw Continent | Country | Province/State | City M: Continental Europe - UK - London Cultural Background F: White, Roman Catholic Cultural Background M: Black British, Christian Mother tongue F: Polish Mother tongue M: English Main language used for communication: English RS status: Ongoing Number of breaks / break ups: 0 Total break time: 0 Civil status: in a relationship ETA Going local: End of December/Beginning of January '17 - 99% 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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