ReadMyThread Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 So yesterday was my birthday. I thought it was going to be a big terrible daddy but it actually turned out to be a night ill never forget. It was amazing! Now, there is this girl I work with. We have been working together for like 2 years now and she has always said I was so cute and how she wished I was older. She would call me "the father of her future kids" lol. Really. She has been close to my family (not me) and has been for a while. I thought her saying all this was just one of those silly things to say about someone UNTIL last night. Like I said it was birthday. I had a suprise party at the bowling alley and there were a lot of people. Later on that night, the girl I work with got there. She got me flowers and I was like okay nothing big it's just a gift and she's a family friend. Then thought the night she keeps buying me shots. Shot after shot lol. Now I have NEVER drank before so this was my first night ever getting drunk. But she was buying me shots and stuff. Then later she was joking how she was getting me drunk to "date rape" me lol. And was telling everyone how I was going to have her babies in the future. So once we got done bowling and drinking I was going to go home but HER BESTFRIEND says no come with us and the after party is at my house. So I'm like, okay wtf. Getting drunk feels good lets go get more. So it me, her, her bestrfriend, and this guy friend of theirs. We get to her house and we all are drinking and laughing. Then! It's bedtime. I thought they were going to take me home before going to sleep but they insisted I spend the night. So bedtime comes and the guy friend says he will cuddle up with her BESTFRIEND. I the. Go to the couch and was getting ready to sleep. Then the girl I work with was like "lets go to bed" I was like.............FROOM! Lol. Followed her. We. Egan to lay down and we started talking. About ex's and ****. Then she like grabbed my arm and got closer so I was like, theres my ****ing plane ticket. I'm going on cacao on somewhere sweet lol. I grabbed her closer and we began kissing and we had sex. Now, I turned 20 yesterday. She is 25! She always said I was so cute and wished I was older so now I'm left with mixed signals everywhere. After we got done, she said I love you you know I do. But I seen that as like a family love not romantic partner. So the morning after. She had to leave for work and I kissed her goodbye ad told her have a nice day. We work at the same place so I seen her later that day. I didnt ask for her number nor have i ever had it lol. She was acting as of nothing happened and it kind of felt alittle wierd/awkward to see her lol. We didn't speak at all. She left but then later in the day she came back to work in her street clothes. She came and told me she set her washer machine on fire lol. I was like now shes talking to me. She NEVER talks to me at work thee than saying hi your so cute but now she did the day after we had sex. Now what do you think I should do? I'm confused. I want to date this girl but I don't know of she feels the same way like that. Maybe it was just sex last night and nothing else. But here's the thing when I went into work everyone was saying I should ask her out on a date. I was like "why her" lol because f what we did. I haven't told anyone about this at work because rumors fly crazy there and I'm a man. I don't brag about it. It seems she could e interested now that I'm older? Or was she just drunk and horny? Lol. But I always was so young and she said I was cute. Think I have a shot? She is very beautiful and I would love to be with her if there was that there. Hmmm. We work together too. I'm lost.
Simon Phoenix Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Don't overthink this. You had a fun night. Keep it fun and the right path will present itself.
bachelorstatus Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Your emotions are running sky high right now dave, I know your full story. Put this down to another notch on the bed post, maybe even bang her a few more times man... but if it gets deeper then pack up and get out of dodge... Dating this girl on a relationship level is a BAD IDEA for you right now man, she'll be NOTHING but a rebound, I know it, you know it... and you'll be back here in no longer than a few weeks all puzzled and confused writing a new story about the good the bad and the ugly... And I'll be here to say I told you so, again, like I did when you gave your ex the time of day... which lasted all but 4 days for you to be back here with an extra stab wound to the heart. Smash it then trash it dave.
Author ReadMyThread Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 Your emotions are running sky high right now dave, I know your full story. Put this down to another notch on the bed post, maybe even bang her a few more times man... but if it gets deeper then pack up and get out of dodge... Dating this girl on a relationship level is a BAD IDEA for you right now man, she'll be NOTHING but a rebound, I know it, you know it... and you'll be back here in no longer than a few weeks all puzzled and confused writing a new story about the good the bad and the ugly... And I'll be here to say I told you so, again, like I did when you gave your ex the time of day... which lasted all but 4 days for you to be back here with an extra stab wound to the heart. Smash it then trash it dave. Man I think your totally right. It's just hard to stop talking to her after we did that. I feel I like her now but have no idea what she thinks of me. This is not good. I'm in a rut. I think I'll just let it go. But she is so beautiful :/. Lol. Ughhh. I want her.
Bumaga vsyo sterpit Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Don't forget to send me her number when you're done.
Simon Phoenix Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Man I think your totally right. It's just hard to stop talking to her after we did that. I feel I like her now but have no idea what she thinks of me. This is not good. I'm in a rut. I think I'll just let it go. But she is so beautiful :/. Lol. Ughhh. I want her. Just talk to her like she's an attractive woman you are physically interested in. You obviously have enough game to have gotten her once, just keep it fun.
bachelorstatus Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Man I think your totally right. It's just hard to stop talking to her after we did that. I feel I like her now but have no idea what she thinks of me. This is not good. I'm in a rut. I think I'll just let it go. But she is so beautiful :/. Lol. Ughhh. I want her. I'm in the EXACT same position as you dave. read this http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/361705-literally-too-broken-another-relationship
Author ReadMyThread Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 Just talk to her like she's an attractive woman you are physically interested in. You obviously have enough game to have gotten her once, just keep it fun. Wow they totally changed the title of my thread and i couldnt find it lol. I got lost but See but thats the thing Simon. When I talk to her, I always look down on myself on being too young for her. I'm 20 and she is either 24 or 25. Im itimidated by her age. :/. I'm asking myself why would she want to be with me if she could be with someone as old as her or older than her. Someone more mature and sexually experienced lol. she's a freak in the bedroom. We have established that lol. I figured if she wanted to **** once he is obvisouly attracted to me but I dont know if she feels the same way I do loo. I should just ask her huh?
CptSaveAho Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Tell her you want her to buy you some more shots this weekend Dont ask.... TELL HER She will know what you are talking about
Simon Phoenix Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Wow they totally changed the title of my thread and i couldnt find it lol. I got lost but See but thats the thing Simon. When I talk to her, I always look down on myself on being too young for her. I'm 20 and she is either 24 or 25. Im itimidated by her age. :/. I'm asking myself why would she want to be with me if she could be with someone as old as her or older than her. Someone more mature and sexually experienced lol. she's a freak in the bedroom. We have established that lol. I figured if she wanted to **** once he is obvisouly attracted to me but I dont know if she feels the same way I do loo. I should just ask her huh? Ask her what? Why make this serious? Just have fun with her. Instead of asking questions why, be smug that she did f--k your brains out. And not every girl you kiss, rub up on or f--k has to be someone you have to have a committed relationship with. Don't think, just throw.
itsmyfault Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Dude, If you have a shot at FWB then do it. Don't complicate it with emotions. Your still getting over your ex but that doesn't mean you can't plough a few fields.. You may really get on and something may come of it, but dont start out with that intention.
Author ReadMyThread Posted December 12, 2012 Author Posted December 12, 2012 Ask her what? Why make this serious? Just have fun with her. Instead of asking questions why, be smug that she did f--k your brains out. And not every girl you kiss, rub up on or f--k has to be someone you have to have a committed relationship with. Don't think, just throw. I have no idea. Ask her out? Ask if she's see something in me that she hasn't before? We always would say hi to each other for the longest time and it always seemed friendly and she would say I'm cute but I thought it was just friendly sayings. till we ****ed lol. Now she talks to me more at work and texts me. Saying sweet dreams at the end of the night. Man. Mixed signals. I just want to know if she could see me as that or not.
CptSaveAho Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Tell her you want her to buy you some more shots this weekend Dont ask.... TELL HER She will know what you are talking about DO THIS ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Its not rocket science
Simon Phoenix Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 I have no idea. Ask her out? Ask if she's see something in me that she hasn't before? We always would say hi to each other for the longest time and it always seemed friendly and she would say I'm cute but I thought it was just friendly sayings. till we ****ed lol. Now she talks to me more at work and texts me. Saying sweet dreams at the end of the night. Man. Mixed signals. I just want to know if she could see me as that or not. Those aren't mixed signals. Those are signals she wants to hang out. So hang out and stop jumping steps. She wants to have fun. Have fun and stop thinking about it. You aren't looking for a wife right now.
Samilia Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Ask her out on a date, see what comes out of it. If she declines, be casual about it, dont be a creep and politely ignore her (meaning you keep your distance while remaining polite) good luck
Author ReadMyThread Posted December 12, 2012 Author Posted December 12, 2012 Ask her out on a date, see what comes out of it. If she declines, be casual about it, dont be a creep and politely ignore her (meaning you keep your distance while remaining polite) good luck I didn't ask her out. I told her to make plans for us lol. I told her I wanted to come and cook her dinner and watch a movie afterwords at her house. She said she can't deny that proposition. Ayyyeeeee!!! Boys got a date tomorrow with a beautiful girl. Time to buy a new shirt, trim the beard, and show her I like her! . I'm excited.
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