myn Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 (edited) I broke down yesterday morning and contacted my ex after 2 more weeks of NC (it's been about a month since the official end, although it was back and forth for a few months before that, he broke up with me, it was very ugly - see related thread posted here http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/358706-does-he-still-feel-me) - via email, asking if we would ever talk again. that evening i got resent an old text from him from around the time of the breakup that said time would heal, but that the sooner i stopped contacting him the sooner he would get over his anger but that i needed to leave him alone (for some reason he is angry at me even though he strung me along with i love yous etc for four months after 1 year and a half relationship bc i called him out after someone said he was dating other women - see above thread). the strange thing was that it was an old text from about 4 weeks ago. so stupid me, i responded today and said, well i am not angry and i hope there is a day when we can talk again. and he responded right away and said that he didn't mean to send that text, that his phone accidentally sent it (he's claimed this before but it's a little weird since the text kind of answered my initial ? and i haven't received an accidental text from him in over a month) and that he didn't mean to initiate anything. and then i responded and said will we ever talk again? to get nothing. i've had some suspicions that he may suffer from npd, and i'm of course the classic case of not letting go, although i try no contact but fail. was he just messing with me with this "accidental" text thing? is his not answering my question about whether we will ever talk again in itself a no? and yes, sadly, i'm still in love with him. Edited December 1, 2012 by myn
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 It's a game. Got to be. Why else send you an email after a while of NC and then not speak again. Try to block him for your own good sweetie. If he wanted to be. With you an email he wouldn't do. He'd do it in person or call. Hugs* don't worry anymore about him. Go and heal find another I know you can you are amazing believe it yourself.
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